Vicki Bonham
Empathetic counselor focused on real-life change
- Credentials
- LMHC
- Experience
- 5 years
- Licensed in
- Florida
- Languages
- English
- Format
- Online sessions
About Vicki
Vicki Bonham is a Florida-licensed mental health counselor who brings five years of professional therapy experience and decades in education to her work. She combines counseling and coaching skills to help people facing stress, anxiety, low self-esteem, relationship strain, grief, and parenting challenges. Vicki writes and speaks about personal growth, and she approaches clients with practical support and encouragement.
She aims to make conversations feel straightforward and useful. Vicki listens first, then tailors goals and steps to each person’s situation.
Background and approach
She uses clear tools and homework when those help, and she slows down when someone needs emotional space. Her background in teaching shaped a calm, patient style. That experience informs how she explains ideas and practices.
Clients can expect explanations in plain language and an emphasis on small, manageable changes. Vicki draws from several therapy methods to suit different needs. She uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to clarify values and build actions, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to reframe unhelpful thoughts, and Attachment-Based ideas when past relationships affect current life.
She also integrates client-centered listening to keep sessions focused on what matters to each person. Sessions are offered by video, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging. Vicki works with adults on issues including career shifts, trauma recovery, compassion fatigue, intimacy concerns, and coping with life changes.
She supports each client in setting realistic next steps and tracking progress over time.
Therapeutic approaches for online work and practical tools
Vicki uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people name their values and take small actions that match them. This approach is often helpful for stress, anxiety, and making meaningful life changes. She also brings Cognitive Behavioral Therapy into online sessions to identify and shift unhelpful thoughts and build new habits that reduce anxiety and low mood.Finding the right approach is treated as a team effort. Vicki talks with each person about goals, preferences, and what has worked before, then adjusts methods as needed. That collaborative process helps make online sessions feel focused and relevant from the first weeks of work.
Online therapy offers practical flexibility through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. These options let people fit sessions into busy schedules, continue care during travel or relocation, and choose the contact style that feels safest. Vicki uses the same clear, step-by-step style online as she does in person, so tools and exercises are easy to try between sessions.
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Less about arguing with difficult thoughts, more about loosening their grip and acting on what matters to you anyway. Values and committed action carry the work, which suits conversation at a distance.
Attachment-Based Therapy
Looks at how early bonds shaped what you expect from closeness, and how that plays out now with a partner, a parent, or your own children.
Client-Centered Therapy
The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
- Stress, Anxiety
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
Also works with
- Abandonment
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Attachment issues
- Avoidant personality
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Co-morbidity
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- Client-Centered Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
- Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
- Mindfulness Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Narrative Therapy
- Solution-Focused Therapy
- Trauma-Focused Therapy
- Internal Family Systems
- Experience
- 5 years
- Licensed
- Florida
- Languages
- English
Next step
Talk to Vicki
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- Nothing to set up just to look
- Stop at any point