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Online therapist

Diana Elstad

Caring guidance for families and life changes

Credentials
LMHC
Experience
35 years
Licensed in
Washington
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Diana

Diana Elstad is a licensed mental health counselor with 35 years of experience. She works with people facing addiction and recovery, depression, anxiety, trauma and abuse, relationship struggles, grief, parenting concerns, and many life transitions. Her approach is warm and straightforward, aimed at helping families and individuals find practical ways forward.

She listens for what is said and what is not said. Diana makes space for difficult feelings and helps clients name the worries beneath them.

Background and approach

Sessions are conversational and focused on small, doable changes that add up over time. Her training spans several therapeutic methods. She draws on client-centered work to build trust, cognitive behavioral techniques to shift thoughts and behaviors, and dialectical skills to manage strong emotions.

She may also use motivational interviewing to support change and narrative therapy to help people reframe their stories. Diana’s background includes work in community clinics, treatment centers, hospitals, and independent practice across Washington. That range shaped a practical style that values clarity and respect.

She describes herself as kind, attentive, and present in the room. Parents worried about family dynamics or a sudden life change will find concrete tools and steady support. Diana aims to help people improve communication, cope with stress, and rebuild routines that support wellbeing.

She welcomes questions and works at a pace that fits each person’s needs.

Therapy approaches and how they work online

Client-centered therapy focuses on listening closely and creating a nonjudgmental space. It helps people feel heard and safer to talk about hard subjects, which can be especially useful for family and parenting concerns.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at how thoughts and actions affect feelings. It uses simple exercises and small behavior changes to reduce anxiety, depression, and day-to-day stressors.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy, DBT, teaches practical skills for managing intense emotions and improving communication. These tools can help when people face crises, strong anger, or repeated relationship patterns.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist collaborates with each person to choose methods that fit their needs, goals, and preferences. Plans are adjusted over time based on what helps.

Online therapy offers flexibility through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. That range makes it easier to fit sessions around parenting, work, and busy days. Video allows face-to-face conversation, while chat and messaging can be useful for brief check-ins or skill reminders between longer sessions.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

Concrete skills for riding out strong emotion, tolerating distress, and handling relationships without things escalating. The skills are practised in daily life, so between-session support by message or phone fits naturally.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Diana commonly address?
She works with addiction and recovery, depression, anxiety, trauma and abuse, stress, relationship and intimacy issues, parenting, grief, eating and sleeping problems, and related challenges.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
Her style is warm and listening-focused with simple, practical steps. Sessions are conversational and aim to find useful changes that fit everyday life.
What experience does she bring to therapy?
She has 35 years of experience across community clinics, treatment centers, hospitals, and independent practice, and has worked with many people on a wide range of concerns.
What are her credentials and where is she based?
She is a licensed mental health counselor, WA LMHC LH 00003771, practicing in Washington.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available?
Sessions can be done via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.
How are costs and payments handled?
Cost varies by location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to therapist availability.

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