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Online therapist

Virginia Hagen

Experienced family-centered counselor

Credentials
LMHC
Experience
35 years
Licensed in
Florida
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Virginia

Virginia Hagen is a licensed mental health counselor in Florida with 35 years of professional experience. She is a former registered nurse with five decades of nursing background and a long history working in a range of mental health settings. She aims to make the first steps toward help feel manageable for parents and families.

Her style is direct and compassionate, focused on practical skills and real-world support. She has worked in inpatient and outpatient mental health services and ran a independent practice in Crystal River, Florida for ten years.

Background and approach

Her experience includes working with families and children with special needs and ADHD, and addressing custody matters where she has provided testimony on behalf of children. She also brings grief work, eating disorder support, and help for depression, stress, anxiety, and addiction concerns.

Later in her career she pursued theological studies, earning a Certificate in Christian Studies from Asbury Theological Seminary and receiving ordination through the Federation of Christian Ministers in 2019. She also completed a hospital chaplain internship during Clinical Pastoral Education at UF Health Shands Hospital in Gainesville, Florida. These experiences inform how she integrates spiritual perspectives when clients want that option.

In sessions she creates an open, nonjudgmental space to talk through feelings and practical problems. She uses a mix of therapy approaches and tangible resources so people can use skills beyond the meeting. Parents who need clear guidance around family and parenting issues often find this straightforward approach helpful.

Her long career combines clinical work, nursing, pastoral training, and family-focused practice. That background shapes how she addresses complex situations involving attachment, communication, blended families, and caregiving stress. She encourages small steps and practical tools so families can move toward better day-to-day functioning.

Online therapy approaches that support family and parenting needs

Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early bonds and current relationships shape reactions and patterns. It helps parents and caregivers understand connection, attachment concerns, and ways to rebuild trust and closeness with children or family members.

Client-Centered Therapy puts the person and their goals at the center. The therapist listens without judgment and follows the client’s pace, making space for parents to voice worries and find their own solutions to parenting and family problems.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on the link between thoughts, feelings, and actions. It teaches concrete skills for managing anxiety, depression, sleep problems, and unhelpful thinking that affects family life.

Virginia will work collaboratively to find the right mix of approaches for each family. She discusses goals, preferences, and practical needs before recommending methods, and she adjusts plans as families try techniques and report what works best.

Online sessions are offered by licensed professionals using video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit busy family schedules. These options make it easier to attend from home, coordinate around childcare, and use shorter check-ins when needed. The variety of formats supports ongoing skill practice and follow-up without adding travel time.

Attachment-Based Therapy

Looks at how early bonds shaped what you expect from closeness, and how that plays out now with a partner, a parent, or your own children.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?
She works with a wide range of issues including stress, anxiety, depression, grief, eating concerns, addictions, parenting challenges, and family conflict.
What is her therapeutic style like?
Her approach is warm and practical. She mixes talk therapy with skills training and real-life tools to help people apply change between sessions.
What is her experience?
She has 35 years of professional experience and previously worked as a registered nurse for 50 years in various mental health settings and independent practice.
What credentials and location are listed?
She holds the Florida Licensed Mental Health Counselor credential, listed as FL LMHC MH4267, and practices from Florida.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English and international clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are available?
Sessions can take place via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.
How does billing work and what does it cost?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then scheduling according to therapist availability.

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Experience
35 years
Licensed
Florida
Languages
English

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