Vicki Alexander Hess
Caring, practical support for life changes
- Credentials
- LCSW
- Experience
- 5 years
- Licensed in
- California
- Languages
- English
- Format
- Online sessions
About Vicki
Vicki Alexander Hess is a licensed clinical social worker who offers calm, practical support for people dealing with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, and life changes. She writes plans to fit each person’s needs and talks plainly about goals and steps. She aims to treat everyone with respect and compassion while focusing on clear action and steady progress.
Vicki brings five years of professional experience and holds a California LCSW - Licensed Clinical Social Worker.
Background and approach
She has worked with concerns that include trauma and abuse, LGBT issues, compassion fatigue, addictions, and intimacy-related struggles. Additional areas of focus listed include family problems, adoption and foster care concerns, body image, chronic illness, and first responder issues. Her work blends evidence-based tools with an emphasis on practical change.
She uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people identify and shift unhelpful thoughts and behaviors. Mindfulness techniques are used to teach attention and self-calming skills. Motivational Interviewing supports people who want help with change but feel uncertain.
Sessions can be adapted to different rhythms: some people prefer focused, short-term problem solving while others work on deeper patterns over time. Vicki writes straightforward plans and checks in on progress. She encourages open conversation about what is working and what needs to change in therapy.
Vicki practices in California and completes sessions in English. She invites clients to take the first step toward clearer thinking and more manageable days by following the simple intake process and scheduling a session.
Approaches that fit online care
Vicki commonly uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Mindfulness Therapy to guide online sessions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy helps people notice and change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors, which is useful for anxiety, depression, sleep problems, and stress. Mindfulness Therapy focuses on training attention and gentle acceptance of present-moment experience, which can help with anxiety, emotional regulation, and coping with chronic illness.She also draws on Motivational Interviewing when someone feels unsure about making a change. That approach uses open questions and reflective listening to clarify values and build readiness for action. Deciding which methods to use is a collaborative process - the therapist and client check goals, try techniques, and adjust the plan together based on what feels most helpful.
Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. These options make it easier to fit therapy into a busy schedule, keep regular contact between sessions, and practice skills in the moments they come up. The variety of formats supports different needs - some people prefer talking live, while others like short check-ins by message.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.
Mindfulness Therapy
Attention training: noticing thoughts and physical feelings as they arrive without being carried off by them. Much of it is practice you do yourself, so guidance over video or audio works much as it would in person.
Motivational Interviewing
A way of working through mixed feelings about change without being pushed. The therapist helps you weigh things up and find your own reasons, which often makes a difficult decision feel less stuck.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
Also works with
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- Adoption and foster care
- Anger management
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Career difficulties
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Depression
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Impulsivity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Life purpose
- Mood disorders
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Post-traumatic stress
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 5 years
- Licensed
- California
- Languages
- English
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