Shirley Ikenze
Helping parents and adults find steady, practical support
- Credentials
- LCSW
- Experience
- 26 years
- Licensed in
- California
- Languages
- English
- Format
- Online sessions
About Shirley
Shirley Ikenze is a licensed clinical social worker who centers therapy on the person in front of her. She uses straightforward, client-centered work to help people sort through stress, anxiety, grief, trauma, and life changes. Shirley draws on 26 years of experience to offer steady support and practical tools.
She welcomes clients in California and holds a California LCSW license. Her sessions focus on strengths and on small steps that feel manageable.
Background and approach
She listens first, then helps people name priorities and try doable strategies. That approach is helpful for concerns such as parenting strain, sleep problems, ADHD challenges, anger, low self-esteem, and career stress. Shirley also works with matters rooted in family history and transitions.
Topics she addresses include abandonment, blended family issues, adoption and foster care, and family of origin problems. She brings experience with end-of-life and caregiver stress, cancer-related concerns, and divorce and separation. Therapeutically she blends client-centered work with mindfulness, motivational interviewing, narrative, and solution-focused techniques.
In practice that means listening for what matters, offering gentle questions to shift perspective, and helping set clear, achievable goals. Practical matters are straightforward. She practices in California under CA LCSW 25539 and conducts sessions in English.
Therapists using similar approaches often offer video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different routines.
Online tools paired with person-centered, goal-focused care
Client-centered therapy puts the client's priorities first and creates space for people to tell their story. The therapist listens without judgment, reflects what matters most, and helps clients decide what to work on next. Mindfulness therapy teaches simple attention and breathing practices to reduce immediate stress and to calm the mind during hard moments. Motivational interviewing uses open questions and reflective listening to help build motivation for change and clarify personal goals.Finding the right approach is part of the process. The therapist will work together with each person to pick methods that match their needs, goals, and comfort level. That collaboration means trying ideas, checking what helps, and adjusting the plan when needed so it fits daily life.
Online sessions are offered as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to make care more flexible. These options allow people to meet from home, fit therapy around work or parenting, and keep momentum between sessions. The variety of formats supports different communication styles and schedules while keeping therapy focused on practical steps and steady progress.
Client-Centered Therapy
The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.
Mindfulness Therapy
Attention training: noticing thoughts and physical feelings as they arrive without being carried off by them. Much of it is practice you do yourself, so guidance over video or audio works much as it would in person.
Motivational Interviewing
A way of working through mixed feelings about change without being pushed. The therapist helps you weigh things up and find your own reasons, which often makes a difficult decision feel less stuck.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
Also works with
- Abandonment
- ADHD
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Blended family issues
- Cancer
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Isolation / loneliness
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Multicultural concerns
- Parenting issues
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sleeping disorders
- Stress, Anxiety
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 26 years
- Licensed
- California
- Languages
- English
Next step
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