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Online therapist

Shirley Ikenze

Helping parents and adults find steady, practical support

Credentials
LCSW
Experience
26 years
Licensed in
California
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Shirley

Shirley Ikenze is a licensed clinical social worker who centers therapy on the person in front of her. She uses straightforward, client-centered work to help people sort through stress, anxiety, grief, trauma, and life changes. Shirley draws on 26 years of experience to offer steady support and practical tools.

She welcomes clients in California and holds a California LCSW license. Her sessions focus on strengths and on small steps that feel manageable.

Background and approach

She listens first, then helps people name priorities and try doable strategies. That approach is helpful for concerns such as parenting strain, sleep problems, ADHD challenges, anger, low self-esteem, and career stress. Shirley also works with matters rooted in family history and transitions.

Topics she addresses include abandonment, blended family issues, adoption and foster care, and family of origin problems. She brings experience with end-of-life and caregiver stress, cancer-related concerns, and divorce and separation. Therapeutically she blends client-centered work with mindfulness, motivational interviewing, narrative, and solution-focused techniques.

In practice that means listening for what matters, offering gentle questions to shift perspective, and helping set clear, achievable goals. Practical matters are straightforward. She practices in California under CA LCSW 25539 and conducts sessions in English.

Therapists using similar approaches often offer video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different routines.

Online tools paired with person-centered, goal-focused care

Client-centered therapy puts the client's priorities first and creates space for people to tell their story. The therapist listens without judgment, reflects what matters most, and helps clients decide what to work on next. Mindfulness therapy teaches simple attention and breathing practices to reduce immediate stress and to calm the mind during hard moments. Motivational interviewing uses open questions and reflective listening to help build motivation for change and clarify personal goals.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. The therapist will work together with each person to pick methods that match their needs, goals, and comfort level. That collaboration means trying ideas, checking what helps, and adjusting the plan when needed so it fits daily life.

Online sessions are offered as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to make care more flexible. These options allow people to meet from home, fit therapy around work or parenting, and keep momentum between sessions. The variety of formats supports different communication styles and schedules while keeping therapy focused on practical steps and steady progress.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Mindfulness Therapy

Attention training: noticing thoughts and physical feelings as they arrive without being carried off by them. Much of it is practice you do yourself, so guidance over video or audio works much as it would in person.

Motivational Interviewing

A way of working through mixed feelings about change without being pushed. The therapist helps you weigh things up and find your own reasons, which often makes a difficult decision feel less stuck.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she commonly address?
Her practice focuses on stress and anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief and loss, coping with life changes, parenting, sleep issues, ADHD, anger, self-esteem, career concerns, and depression, along with many family-related topics.
What is her general therapeutic style?
She uses client-centered methods that prioritize the person's experience and goals, combined with mindfulness and solution-focused techniques to build practical steps forward.
How much experience does she have?
She has 26 years of professional experience working with a range of emotional and family-related concerns.
What credentials and location are listed?
She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with California license CA LCSW 25539 and practices in California.
Which languages are supported and are international clients accepted?
Sessions are offered in English and she is not accepting international clients.
In what formats are sessions offered?
She provides video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to accommodate different needs and schedules.
How are fees and subscriptions handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What are the steps to begin therapy?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions based on the therapist's availability.

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