Connie Zmijewski
Compassionate support for families and relationships
- Credentials
- LCMHC
- Experience
- 20 years
- Licensed in
- North Carolina
- Languages
- English
- Format
- Online sessions
About Connie
Connie Zmijewski is a licensed clinical mental health counselor who supports people facing relationship and family struggles. She helps with parenting challenges, grief and loss, mood concerns like depression and bipolar, stress and anxiety, trauma and abuse, and issues around intimacy and communication. Connie speaks plainly and aims to make conversations feel manageable for a worried parent reading on a phone.
Her sessions focus on listening first and building on each person's strengths.
Background and approach
She uses practical steps and evidence-informed tools to address sleeping problems, anger, self-esteem, and life transitions. She also offers coaching-style support for career and coping with caregiving strain. Connie brings 20 years of experience as a licensed clinician in North Carolina.
Her training includes approaches such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and Client-Centered Therapy. She draws on these methods to tailor care to each person’s needs and goals. Clients can expect a collaborative tone in sessions.
Conversations are paced to fit what a family or parent needs in the moment. The work often combines practical problem-solving with attention to values, meaning, and coping skills. In addition to core concerns, Connie addresses a wide range of related issues including adoption and foster care matters, attachment and blended family concerns, caregiver stress, chronic illness and disability, ADHD, and body image.
She provides care in English and accepts international clients.
How her approaches translate to online care
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people clarify what matters to them and take small, practical steps toward those values while accepting difficult feelings. It is useful for anxiety, depression, life transitions, and parenting stress. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and changing behaviors that keep problems going, which can help with sleep issues, anger, and mood symptoms. Client-Centered Therapy centers on respectful listening and empathy, giving people space to tell their story and build on their own strengths.Choosing the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will talk with clients about their goals, try methods that fit their needs, and adjust the plan based on what helps. This collaborative process helps find strategies that feel realistic for everyday family life.
Online sessions are offered as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to increase flexibility. These options make it easier to fit therapy around parenting schedules and other responsibilities, and allow people to continue work when travel or distance would otherwise be a barrier. Licensed professionals can use these formats to deliver the same kinds of therapeutic skills and exercises used in office settings, adapted to what works best for each person.
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Less about arguing with difficult thoughts, more about loosening their grip and acting on what matters to you anyway. Values and committed action carry the work, which suits conversation at a distance.
Client-Centered Therapy
The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Grief
Also works with
- Abandonment
- ADHD
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Immigration issues
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Stress, Anxiety
- Trauma and abuse
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 20 years
- Licensed
- North Carolina
- Languages
- English
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