Randi Butwin
Relationship and family-focused therapist
- Credentials
- LMFT
- Experience
- 3 years
- Licensed in
- California
- Languages
- English
- Format
- Online sessions
About Randi
Randi Butwin is a licensed marriage and family therapist who focuses on relationships and family concerns. She works with teens and adults who are rebuilding after difficult relationships or identity shifts. Her style is practical and direct, aimed at helping parents and partners find clearer paths forward.
She speaks plainly and meets people where they are so conversations feel manageable. Randi has worked in hospice and bereavement support, in schools with children, teens, parents, and families, and in a community clinic with transitional youth who have had to cut ties with their families.
Background and approach
She has also provided therapy in independent practice settings with couples. That range gives her experience with parenting challenges, intimacy issues, stress and anxiety, and navigating identity changes. Her approach draws on Client-Centered Therapy to keep sessions focused on the person’s experience, the Gottman Method for practical relationship skills, and Motivational Interviewing to help people find reasons to change.
She also uses Narrative Therapy to help clients rewrite the stories they tell about themselves and their relationships. These approaches are used to address concerns such as ADHD, parenting struggles, communication problems, and sexual identity questions. Randi holds a California LMFT - Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist - CA LMFT 123349.
She has three years of clinical experience. Sessions are offered in English and are provided through video calls, phone, live chat, and text-based messaging. She practices in California and works with a range of family and parenting issues.
Randi aims to help clients identify strengths, set clear goals, and take small steps toward better relationships. She invites parents and partners to bring specific concerns so sessions can focus on practical next steps.
Approaches for Relationships and Family Life Online
Client-Centered Therapy focuses on the person in front of the therapist and creates space to talk about what matters most. It helps when someone needs acceptance and a chance to figure things out at their own pace. The Gottman Method offers clear, research-informed skills for couples and family communication, and it is useful for improving everyday interactions and managing conflict.Finding the right approach is part of the work. Randi will collaborate with each client to identify goals and try methods that fit those goals and preferences. That means adjusting techniques over time and checking in about what helps most for parenting, identity shifts, or relationship repair.
Online sessions can make it easier to balance therapy with family life. Video calls let people work from home, phone sessions remove travel time, and live chat or text-based messaging offer shorter check-ins between sessions. These options provide flexibility for parents, partners, and busy adults who need consistent support without reshaping their whole day.
Client-Centered Therapy
The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.
Gottman Method
A research-based framework for couples, focused on how partners argue, repair, and stay connected. Practical and structured, with exercises to try between sessions.
Motivational Interviewing
A way of working through mixed feelings about change without being pushed. The therapist helps you weigh things up and find your own reasons, which often makes a difficult decision feel less stuck.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
- LGBT
- Relationship issues
Also works with
- ADHD
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Communication problems
- Coping with life changes
- Family conflicts
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Gender dysphoria
- Intimacy-related issues
- Multicultural concerns
- Parenting issues
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sexuality
- Stress, Anxiety
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 3 years
- Licensed
- California
- Languages
- English
Next step
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- Stop at any point