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Online therapist

John Rubinov

Practical therapy for stress, identity, and change

Credentials
LMHC
Experience
9 years
Licensed in
Florida
Languages
English, Hebrew, Russian
Format
Online sessions

About John

John Rubinov is a licensed mental health counselor who works with people facing stress, anxiety, addiction, grief, and life changes. He writes and speaks plainly in sessions, helping clients sort out immediate problems and set practical next steps. Sessions aim to be down-to-earth and focused on what matters most to each person.

John uses a mix of approaches to match each person's needs. He draws from cognitive behavioral therapy to spot unhelpful thoughts and build new habits.

Background and approach

He also uses acceptance and commitment therapy to help people clarify values and take committed action. Mindfulness practices are woven in to help with emotion regulation and present-moment focus. With nine years of work in Florida as a Florida licensed mental health counselor (FL LMHC MH20843), John blends structured tools with a warm, listening stance.

He speaks English, Hebrew, and Russian, which can make it easier for some people to explain what they are feeling. John often addresses issues such as self-esteem, intimacy-related struggles, anger, career concerns, coping with change, and compassion fatigue. He also has experience with topics like abandonment, aging and geriatric issues, autism and Asperger Syndrome, BDSM and kink, and family of origin questions.

Sessions may use short-term goal work or a longer process depending on what the person needs. The aim is practical progress: clearer choices, calmer reactions, and steps that fit everyday life.

Therapeutic approaches and how they work online

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, focuses on helping people name their values and take small steps toward them even when emotions are strong. It can be useful for anxiety, depression, and making life changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and actions and teaches practical skills to change patterns that cause problems. That approach often helps with anxiety, low mood, and stress. Mindfulness-based work trains simple awareness skills to reduce reactivity and improve focus, which can support emotional regulation and day-to-day coping.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. John treats the choice of methods as a collaborative process. Together the therapist and client will test techniques, adjust what does not help, and settle on a mix that fits the client’s needs and goals.

Online sessions make it easier to fit therapy into busy lives. Video calls recreate a face-to-face conversation, while phone, live chat, and text messaging offer more flexible ways to connect between tasks. These options help people keep momentum, practice skills in real time, and maintain continuity of care when schedules or locations change.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

Less about arguing with difficult thoughts, more about loosening their grip and acting on what matters to you anyway. Values and committed action carry the work, which suits conversation at a distance.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does he commonly address?
He works with stress, anxiety, addiction, depression, grief, self-esteem, ADHD, intimacy-related issues, anger, career questions, coping with life changes, and compassion fatigue, among other concerns.
What is his general therapeutic style?
Sessions combine practical tools and open listening. John uses clear skills training alongside reflective conversation to help people make concrete changes.
How long has he been practicing?
He has nine years of professional experience working as a therapist in a range of clinical situations.
What credentials and location are listed?
He is a Florida licensed mental health counselor, FL LMHC MH20843, and practices out of Florida.
Which languages are supported for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English, Hebrew, and Russian.
Can people outside the United States work with him?
International clients are accepted, allowing people in other countries to connect for sessions.
What formats are available for sessions?
He offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to match different schedules and preferences.
How are fees and getting started handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and uses a subscription that can be canceled at any time. To begin, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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