Shelley Hill
Calm, experienced guidance for life’s hard moments
- Credentials
- LCSW
- Experience
- 25 years
- Licensed in
- Illinois
- Languages
- English
- Format
- Online sessions
About Shelley
Shelley Hill is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 25 years of experience helping people navigate stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, addictions, and relationship concerns. She offers a calm, direct style and aims to create a space where people can talk through what’s troubling them. Shelley is based in Illinois and brings practical skills to emotional problems that feel stuck or repeating.
Shelley believes many problems live below conscious awareness. She uses conversations plus hands-on techniques to bring those patterns into view.
Background and approach
That might mean learning new ways to calm the body, shifting unhelpful thoughts, or using brief focused exercises to change how a situation plays out. Her style blends listening with clear guidance. She shows up with curiosity, compassion, and a bit of humor.
Sessions can be a place to vent, to figure out next steps, or to practice different responses until they feel natural. Over her career Shelley has worked with people facing grief, identity and intimacy questions, caregiver stress, chronic illness, anger, sleep and eating problems, and attention-related concerns. She also supports those dealing with abuse, attachment wounds, and major life transitions.
Shelley draws on approaches such as mindfulness, somatic techniques, solution-focused work, hypnotherapy, and the Gottman Method when appropriate. She helps people find practical ways to cope now while building longer term change. If someone wants a mix of emotional support and concrete tools, she aims to meet them where they are.
Approaches that translate well to online work
Shelley commonly uses the Gottman Method to help people improve communication and rebuild trust in relationships. That approach focuses on concrete skills for handling conflict and increasing connection, and it can be taught and practiced during sessions online.She also uses Mindfulness Therapy to teach simple attention and breathing practices that reduce stress and help people notice patterns in thought and feeling. These practices are easy to guide over video or phone and can be practiced between sessions.
Somatic Therapy is another option Shelley brings into sessions to help people notice and change bodily responses linked to emotions. Simple body-based exercises and grounding techniques can be learned in a virtual visit and used in daily life.
Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. Shelley will talk with the person about their goals, try methods that fit those goals, and adjust the plan together as needed. She aims to balance emotional support with practical steps that feel doable.
Online therapy offers flexibility for busy schedules and for people who prefer remote visits. Video calls allow face-to-face work, while phone, live chat, and text-based messaging provide shorter check-ins or ongoing support between sessions. These options make it easier to keep progress moving without extra travel.
Gottman Method
A research-based framework for couples, focused on how partners argue, repair, and stay connected. Practical and structured, with exercises to try between sessions.
Mindfulness Therapy
Attention training: noticing thoughts and physical feelings as they arrive without being carried off by them. Much of it is practice you do yourself, so guidance over video or audio works much as it would in person.
Solution-Focused Therapy
Rather than examining the problem at length, this looks at what is already working and builds on it. Sessions tend to be practical and forward-looking, with small achievable steps, which translates readily to shorter online conversations.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
Also works with
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Body image
- Cancer
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating and food-related issues
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Fertility issues
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Guilt and shame
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Narcissism
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Personality disorders
- Phobias
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Relationship issues
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Somatization
- Trichotillomania
- Veteran and Armed Forces Issues
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 25 years
- Licensed
- Illinois
- Languages
- English
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