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Online therapist

Shelley Hill

Calm, experienced guidance for life’s hard moments

Credentials
LCSW
Experience
25 years
Licensed in
Illinois
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Shelley

Shelley Hill is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 25 years of experience helping people navigate stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, addictions, and relationship concerns. She offers a calm, direct style and aims to create a space where people can talk through what’s troubling them. Shelley is based in Illinois and brings practical skills to emotional problems that feel stuck or repeating.

Shelley believes many problems live below conscious awareness. She uses conversations plus hands-on techniques to bring those patterns into view.

Background and approach

That might mean learning new ways to calm the body, shifting unhelpful thoughts, or using brief focused exercises to change how a situation plays out. Her style blends listening with clear guidance. She shows up with curiosity, compassion, and a bit of humor.

Sessions can be a place to vent, to figure out next steps, or to practice different responses until they feel natural. Over her career Shelley has worked with people facing grief, identity and intimacy questions, caregiver stress, chronic illness, anger, sleep and eating problems, and attention-related concerns. She also supports those dealing with abuse, attachment wounds, and major life transitions.

Shelley draws on approaches such as mindfulness, somatic techniques, solution-focused work, hypnotherapy, and the Gottman Method when appropriate. She helps people find practical ways to cope now while building longer term change. If someone wants a mix of emotional support and concrete tools, she aims to meet them where they are.

Approaches that translate well to online work

Shelley commonly uses the Gottman Method to help people improve communication and rebuild trust in relationships. That approach focuses on concrete skills for handling conflict and increasing connection, and it can be taught and practiced during sessions online.

She also uses Mindfulness Therapy to teach simple attention and breathing practices that reduce stress and help people notice patterns in thought and feeling. These practices are easy to guide over video or phone and can be practiced between sessions.

Somatic Therapy is another option Shelley brings into sessions to help people notice and change bodily responses linked to emotions. Simple body-based exercises and grounding techniques can be learned in a virtual visit and used in daily life.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. Shelley will talk with the person about their goals, try methods that fit those goals, and adjust the plan together as needed. She aims to balance emotional support with practical steps that feel doable.

Online therapy offers flexibility for busy schedules and for people who prefer remote visits. Video calls allow face-to-face work, while phone, live chat, and text-based messaging provide shorter check-ins or ongoing support between sessions. These options make it easier to keep progress moving without extra travel.

Gottman Method

A research-based framework for couples, focused on how partners argue, repair, and stay connected. Practical and structured, with exercises to try between sessions.

Mindfulness Therapy

Attention training: noticing thoughts and physical feelings as they arrive without being carried off by them. Much of it is practice you do yourself, so guidance over video or audio works much as it would in person.

Solution-Focused Therapy

Rather than examining the problem at length, this looks at what is already working and builds on it. Sessions tend to be practical and forward-looking, with small achievable steps, which translates readily to shorter online conversations.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Shelley address?
Shelley supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, addictions, grief, intimacy-related issues, relationship and family concerns, eating and sleeping problems, anger, self-esteem, ADHD, and related challenges.
How would you describe her therapeutic approach?
She blends listening with practical guidance and uses tools to shift patterns below conscious awareness. Sessions may include mindfulness, somatic work, brief solution-focused techniques, or other approaches tailored to the person.
What is her professional background?
Shelley has 25 years of clinical experience working with a wide range of emotional and behavioral issues. Her work combines supportive presence with targeted interventions.
Where is Shelley licensed and practicing?
She is licensed in Illinois as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, credential IL LCSW 149009006.
Which languages are supported in sessions?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available?
Therapy can be provided by video call, phone session, live chat, or text-based messaging.
How are fees and payments handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with Shelley?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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