Oksana Shiell
Calm, practical support for family and parenting concerns
- Credentials
- LMFT
- Experience
- 18 years
- Licensed in
- California, Arkansas
- Languages
- English, Russian, Ukrainian
- Format
- Online sessions
About Oksana
Oksana Shiell is a licensed marriage and family therapist who blends practical skills with attentive listening. She uses straightforward, evidence-based methods to help people manage stress, anxiety, parenting struggles, anger, and low self-esteem. Oksana speaks English, Russian, and Ukrainian, and brings 18 years of clinical experience to her work.
Her California and Arkansas licenses are CA LMFT 50698 and AR LMFT M2402001. She focuses on helping people navigate life changes and rebuild confidence after difficult events.
Background and approach
Sessions are collaborative and centered on the person in front of her. Oksana uses clear tools from therapies like cognitive behavioral therapy and dialectical behavior therapy to teach coping skills that can be used day to day. Her approach is warm and direct.
Conversations are tailored to each person’s goals and situation. She pays attention to patterns such as attachment, impulsivity, control, and communication problems, and addresses related concerns like infidelity, isolation, or grief when they arise. Oksana also works with issues linked to aging, immigration, autism, and body image.
She helps clients sort through practical steps during divorce, separation, or other major transitions. The aim is to find realistic, manageable changes that improve daily life. Therapy includes exploring feelings and practicing new responses.
Oksana supports clients through anger, forgiveness work, and rebuilding trust in relationships. She helps people become steadier and more confident as they face new challenges.
Therapeutic approaches and how they work online
Client-centered therapy focuses on listening and understanding each person's experience. The therapist offers acceptance and works alongside the client to clarify goals and priorities, which helps when life feels overwhelming or confusing.Cognitive behavioral therapy, or CBT, teaches concrete skills for changing unhelpful thoughts and behaviors. It is useful for anxiety, stress, and building new routines that support parenting and daily coping.
Dialectical behavior therapy, DBT, adds skills for managing strong emotions and improving interpersonal effectiveness. It offers step-by-step techniques for anger, impulsivity, and crisis moments.
Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals and try methods that fit the client's needs and preferences. This collaborative process helps tailor sessions so they feel practical and relevant.
Online therapy makes these methods more accessible through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. Those options provide flexibility for busy schedules and for people who prefer different ways of talking. Licensed professionals can teach skills, review progress, and adjust plans without requiring in-person visits, which can make it easier to keep therapy consistent.
Client-Centered Therapy
The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
Concrete skills for riding out strong emotion, tolerating distress, and handling relationships without things escalating. The skills are practised in daily life, so between-session support by message or phone fits naturally.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
- Stress, Anxiety
- Parenting issues
- Anger management
Also works with
- Abandonment
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Body image
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Divorce and separation
- Forgiveness
- Immigration issues
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Multicultural concerns
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Women's issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 18 years
- Licensed
- California, Arkansas
- Languages
- English, Russian, Ukrainian
Next step
Talk to Oksana
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- Nothing to set up just to look
- Stop at any point