Monica Erk
Practical therapy with a relational focus
- Credentials
- LMFT
- Experience
- 12 years
- Licensed in
- Indiana
- Languages
- English
- Format
- Online sessions
About Monica
Monica Erk is a licensed marriage and family therapist who focuses on practical, down-to-earth support. She draws on 12 years of clinical experience to help people who are feeling stuck by stress, anxiety, depression, or life changes. Monica keeps sessions conversational and direct so parents and individuals can get clear steps they can try between meetings.
She holds an Indiana Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist credential - LMFT - and offers care in English from Indiana.
Background and approach
Her approach mixes proven tools and a relational perspective. She uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to spot unhelpful thinking and build new habits. She also uses Emotionally-Focused Therapy to attend to the emotional bonds that shape how people relate to others.
Monica adds EMDR for people with a history of trauma who need targeted processing of painful memories. In a session she will listen closely, ask practical questions, and suggest exercises you can use at home. She avoids labels and aims to meet each person where they are.
Over time the work can include skills practice, processing of upsetting events, and rebuilding patterns that better match your values. Monica works with a wide range of concerns including relationship difficulties, parenting stress, grief, addiction, sleep problems, anger, and mood disorders. She also addresses issues like attachment struggles, family of origin questions, shame, loneliness, and questions about life purpose and money.
Her style is warm, interactive, and focused on what will help next.
Evidence-based approaches adapted for online care
Attachment-Based Therapy emphasizes how relationships and early bonds shape current patterns. It helps people notice and gently change patterns of connection and distance that cause repeated conflict or loneliness. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, focuses on the link between thoughts, feelings, and actions. It teaches concrete skills to challenge unhelpful thoughts and build new habits for mood, anxiety, and sleep. EMDR, or Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, targets painful memories and can reduce the emotional charge linked to traumatic events.Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences, and what has or hasn’t helped before. Together the client and therapist decide which methods to try and adjust the plan as progress is made. This collaborative process helps tailor sessions to what matters most to the person seeking help.
Online therapy with video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging makes it easier to fit care into a busy life. Video sessions allow face-to-face conversation while phone or chat options can feel more convenient on hectic days. Text-based messaging and live chat can help keep momentum between longer sessions. These formats offer flexibility and make it simpler to attend regularly and practice new skills in everyday life.
Attachment-Based Therapy
Looks at how early bonds shaped what you expect from closeness, and how that plays out now with a partner, a parent, or your own children.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
Concrete skills for riding out strong emotion, tolerating distress, and handling relationships without things escalating. The skills are practised in daily life, so between-session support by message or phone fits naturally.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
Also works with
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Bipolar disorder
- Career difficulties
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Post-traumatic stress
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Traumatic brain injury
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 12 years
- Licensed
- Indiana
- Languages
- English
Next step
Talk to Monica
- Takes a few minutes
- Nothing to set up just to look
- Stop at any point