Lynnetta Hawkins
Supportive family and relationship therapist
- Credentials
- LMFT
- Experience
- 12 years
- Licensed in
- California
- Languages
- English
- Format
- Online sessions
About Lynnetta
Lynnetta Hawkins is a licensed marriage and family therapist who uses a practical, client-centered approach. She focuses on clear goals and concrete steps, helping people tackle relationship and family problems and daily stressors. Her style is straightforward and warm, aimed at parents and partners who want useful tools more than jargon.
She speaks English and practices from California. With 12 years of clinical experience, she draws on multiple evidence-based methods.
Background and approach
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) helps identify and change unhelpful thoughts that feed anxiety or depression. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) offers skills for emotion regulation and relationship conflicts. Mindfulness techniques are used to build focus and reduce reactivity.
Her background includes work in psychiatric crisis assessment and inpatient treatment teams. She has experience assessing risk and coordinating care for people in acute situations and now manages a psychiatric unit. For several years she has provided independent practice services in person and online.
Lynnetta also has a strong clinical focus on sexuality and relationship concerns. She has worked with non-traditional relationship structures and kink-related issues, as well as painful sex and intimacy challenges. She approaches these topics without judgment and aims to help couples and individuals communicate needs more clearly.
Parents and couples often find her practical coaching helpful for blended family problems, communication hurdles, and caregiving stress. She emphasizes skill-building and steady progress rather than quick fixes. If someone wants a clear plan and supportive guidance, she aims to offer both.
How therapeutic methods translate to online family and relationship work
Client-Centered Therapy in her practice means listening closely to each person and shaping sessions around what matters most. This approach helps bring clarity to relationship and parenting goals and makes sure therapy feels relevant to daily life.Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is used to spot and change thinking patterns that worsen anxiety, depression, or conflict. CBT sessions often include simple exercises and homework to try between meetings, which can help parents and partners see quick, practical benefits.
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) provides tools for managing strong emotions and improving communication. It can be helpful when conflict or intense feelings interfere with family functioning and relationships.
Choosing the right method is part of the work together. Lynnetta will collaborate with each person to decide which approach suits their needs and goals, and she adjusts methods as progress and feedback guide the process.
Online sessions offer flexible ways to meet - video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. This variety lets busy parents or people with tight schedules access therapy without long commutes. The formats support follow-up, skill practice, and quick check-ins so therapeutic work can fit into real life.
Client-Centered Therapy
The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
Concrete skills for riding out strong emotion, tolerating distress, and handling relationships without things escalating. The skills are practised in daily life, so between-session support by message or phone fits naturally.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
Also works with
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- Anger management
- Antisocial personality
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Avoidant personality
- BDSM, kink, and alternative sex culture
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Co-morbidity
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family conflicts
- Family problems
- Gender dysphoria
- Guilt and shame
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intellectual disability
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Multicultural concerns
- Narcissism
- Obsessions, compulsions, and OCD
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Paranoia
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
- Polyamory / non-monogamous relationships
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Prejudice and discrimination
- Process addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)
- Relationship issues
- Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sex addiction
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Smoking / vaping cessation
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Trauma and abuse
- Trichotillomania
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 12 years
- Licensed
- California
- Languages
- English
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