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Online therapist

Donald Shawler

Practical support for stress, mood, and life changes

Credentials
LCPC
Experience
20 years
Licensed in
Illinois
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Donald

Donald Shawler is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor (LCPC) who brings 20 years of experience to his work with adults. He focuses on helping people manage depression, anxiety, stress, and a range of life changes. He aims to create a calm, nonjudgmental space where people can talk through what is hard for them.

His style starts with a person-centered way of listening. That means he follows what matters to the client and builds goals together.

Background and approach

He also uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, which looks at patterns of thinking and helps reframe thoughts that get in the way. Donald teaches practical skills like anger management and coping strategies. He often blends mindfulness exercises to help clients notice reactions and make different choices.

Emotional work is part of sessions when needed to address relational or intimacy-related problems. He has worked with people facing addictions, grief, trauma, and identity concerns including LGBT issues. Other areas he addresses include career stress, caregiver strain, body image, and blended family concerns.

The focus is on clear steps and steady progress rather than quick fixes. Sessions are held with attention to each person's pace and values. Donald works from Illinois and offers services in English.

He is open to working with international clients and adapts approaches to fit individual needs and goals.

How therapeutic approaches translate to online care

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and following the client's priorities. Online sessions using this approach let the therapist and client set goals together and work at the client’s pace, which can help when people are coping with stress, life changes, or relationship problems.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, breaks problems into thoughts, feelings, and actions. In remote work, CBT often includes short exercises, thought records, and practical homework to change unhelpful thinking patterns that contribute to anxiety or depression.

Mindfulness helps people notice their reactions and create space for choice. Online sessions can include simple guided exercises and prompts to practice between meetings, which supports managing anger, worry, and emotional overwhelm.

Donald treats finding the right approach as a joint task. He will talk with each person about their goals, try methods that fit, and adjust based on what works best. That collaborative process is part of early sessions.

Online therapy offers flexibility through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. These options make it easier to fit counseling into busy days, allow follow-up outside of scheduled meetings, and let people keep continuity when travel or distance is a factor.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)

Attends to the emotions underneath a recurring argument or distance, and to the attachment needs driving them. Often used where a relationship keeps returning to the same painful loop.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Donald help with?
He works with adults facing depression, anxiety, stress, and a wide range of other issues such as addictions, grief, trauma, relationship and intimacy concerns, and LGBT-related matters.
What is his general therapy style?
He uses a person-centered approach that follows what the client brings, combined with practical methods like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and mindfulness to teach skills and reframe unhelpful thoughts.
What background does he have?
Donald has 20 years of counseling experience helping adults with mood, stress, anger, and life transitions using an integrative approach.
Where is he licensed and located?
He is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor with the Illinois license number IL LCPC 180005917 and practices from Illinois.
Which languages and regions are supported?
Sessions are offered in English and he accepts international clients.
What formats are available for sessions?
Sessions are offered as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.
How is payment handled?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
To start, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a session based on the therapist's availability.

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