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Online therapist

Carrie Bican

Warm, practical support for life and family challenges

Credentials
LMFT
Experience
9 years
Licensed in
California
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Carrie

Carrie Bican is a licensed marriage and family therapist who focuses on practical help for people feeling overwhelmed by stress, anxiety, grief, or life changes. She speaks plainly and works to make therapy feel doable. Parents and caregivers often contact her about family strain, parenting challenges, and relationship tensions.

She also supports people facing mood struggles, addiction concerns, and career or purpose questions. Carrie trained with a Master of Science in Counseling Psychology emphasizing Marital and Family Therapy.

Background and approach

She holds a California Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist credential - CA LMFT 108224 - and has nine years of clinical experience. Her background includes school-based counseling in Ventura County and work as a primary clinician in psychiatric settings. Her approach is flexible and person-centered.

She adapts methods to the person in front of her rather than following a fixed program. That can mean using attachment-focused ideas to strengthen bonds, cognitive-behavioral techniques to change unhelpful patterns, or mindfulness practices to calm intense feelings. Sessions often include practical skill-building.

Carrie helps people develop coping tools, communication strategies, and routines that support daily life. She also incorporates life skills and insight work when those are useful. The tone in sessions is compassionate and straightforward.

Carrie aims to help people move forward from setbacks instead of feeling stuck. Her work combines experience from family systems, solution-focused ideas, and trauma-aware practices to meet each person where they are.

Therapeutic approaches and how they work online

Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how relationships shape current feelings and behavior. It helps people notice patterns in close relationships and try new ways of connecting that reduce conflict and anxiety. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, focuses on changing unhelpful thoughts and behaviors. It teaches clear tools for managing mood, anxiety, sleep, and daily routines through structured practice and skill building. Dialectical Behavior Therapy, or DBT, provides skills for emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and improving communication. It can be helpful when strong emotions or repeated crises make daily life hard.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist collaborates with each person to choose methods that match their goals, needs, and comfort level. That might mean combining attachment ideas with CBT tools, or emphasizing DBT skills for managing intense feelings. Decisions are reviewed as progress is made.

Online therapy offers scheduling flexibility and easier access to regular sessions. Carrie uses video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging so sessions can fit into busy days and caregiving routines. These options make it simpler to practice new skills between meetings and to get timely support when challenges come up.

Attachment-Based Therapy

Looks at how early bonds shaped what you expect from closeness, and how that plays out now with a partner, a parent, or your own children.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Carrie commonly address?
She works with stress, anxiety, grief, mood disorders, relationship and family difficulties, parenting issues, addictions, and life transition challenges.
What is her general therapy style?
Carrie uses a person-centered, flexible style. She blends practical skill teaching with conversational therapy to make changes that fit daily life.
What training and experience does she have?
Carrie earned a Master of Science in Counseling Psychology with an emphasis in Marital and Family Therapy and has nine years of clinical experience in schools and psychiatric settings.
Where is Carrie licensed and based?
She is a California Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, CA LMFT 108224, and practices in California.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English.
Can people outside the U.S. work with her?
International clients are not currently accepted; sessions are provided to clients within the regions she is licensed to serve.
What session formats does she use?
She meets by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to offer flexible ways to connect.
How are fees and signing up handled?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability and use a subscription that can be canceled at any time. To begin, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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