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Online therapist

Toni Hernalsteen

Practical support for life changes and stress

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Credentials
LMSW
Experience
17 years
Licensed in
Michigan
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Toni

Toni Hernalsteen is a licensed social worker in Michigan who focuses on helping people manage stress, anxiety, addiction, grief, depression, relationship strain, parenting challenges, and other life changes. She brings 17 years of professional experience to sessions and aims to meet clients where they are. Her manner is warm and respectful, with an emphasis on listening first and building from strengths.

Toni uses practical approaches that focus on what helps a person move forward.

Background and approach

She draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, and client-centered techniques to shape conversations and plan steps clients can try between sessions. Sessions are collaborative and geared toward realistic goals that match a client’s life and values. She likes to think creatively about obstacles and about motivation.

That can mean finding small, manageable actions to build momentum. Toni adjusts pacing and tools to fit each person rather than using the same method for everyone. Her background includes training in mindfulness approaches and additional work around substance use and relapse support.

Toni also has experience with trauma-informed strategies and grief work. People who meet with her can expect an active listener who helps them name concerns, set clear goals, and track progress. The aim is to create a supportive space to reflect, practice new skills, and move toward better day-to-day coping.

Toni welcomes straightforward conversations about expectations and tailors the plan to match each person’s priorities and life circumstances.

Approaches that translate well to online therapy

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focuses on clarifying values and taking small actions that matter, helping with anxiety, stress, and life transitions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) looks at how thoughts, feelings, and actions connect and teaches practical skills to shift unhelpful patterns, which can be useful for depression, sleep problems, and worry. Motivational Interviewing helps build motivation for change and can be paired with other methods to support changes related to substance use or lifestyle goals.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. Toni will listen to your goals and preferences and suggest methods to try. She adapts tools over time and checks in about what is helping so the plan fits your life and needs.

Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to make care more convenient. These formats let people connect from home, fit sessions into busy schedules, and follow up between appointments in ways that suit them. The variety of options supports flexible, ongoing progress and makes it easier to keep therapy consistent despite a busy life.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

Less about arguing with difficult thoughts, more about loosening their grip and acting on what matters to you anyway. Values and committed action carry the work, which suits conversation at a distance.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Toni address?
She works with stress, anxiety, addictions, grief, depression, relationship issues, parenting challenges, trauma and related concerns listed in her specialties.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
Her style is collaborative and practical, combining listening with concrete steps clients can try between sessions to test what helps.
What is her professional background?
She has 17 years of professional work experience and training in areas such as mindfulness, motivational interviewing, and trauma-informed practices.
What are Toni's credentials and where is she based?
She holds an LMSW (MI LMSW 6801090847) and practices in Michigan.
Which languages are supported for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats does she offer?
She provides video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging as session formats.
How is cost handled for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to therapist availability.

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Experience
17 years
Licensed
Michigan
Languages
English

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