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Online therapist

Shirley Marks

Trusted family and relationship support

Credentials
LMFT
Experience
44 years
Licensed in
Tennessee
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Shirley

Shirley Marks is a licensed marriage and family therapist with 44 years of clinical experience. She focuses on family and parenting concerns alongside a wide range of relationship and personal issues. Shirley keeps sessions straightforward and practical so parents can get help without confusing jargon.

She helps people who are coping with addictions, stress, anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, and grief. Relationship and intimacy issues are a regular focus, as are self-esteem and life transitions.

Background and approach

Her work also addresses multicultural concerns, LGBT issues, and women's concerns, along with problems like codependency and communication difficulties. In sessions Shirley aims to build a calm, open space where thoughts and feelings can be talked through without judgment. She draws on approaches grounded in evidence to identify steps that fit each family’s situation.

Her style is collaborative and down-to-earth, focused on small changes that add up over time. Shirley provides services to people in Tennessee and conducts sessions in English. She offers several online formats including video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to match different schedules and needs.

To begin, a person completes a short matching questionnaire and schedules sessions based on the therapist’s availability. Her Tennessee license is LMFT, listed as TN LMFT 1090.

Approaches that fit family and parenting needs

Shirley uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques that are practical and focused on real-life change. One common approach emphasizes building clear communication and problem-solving skills for families. This helps households reduce conflict and set routines that work for parents and partners.

Another approach focuses on coping strategies for anxiety, stress, and addictive behaviors. It teaches short-term tools people can use when they feel overwhelmed, and ways to replace harmful patterns with healthier habits.

Choosing the right method is part of the process. Shirley works with each person to decide which approaches best match their goals and daily life. That choice is collaborative and can change as needs evolve over time.

Online therapy options include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. These formats make it easier to fit therapy around parenting schedules and busy days. They also let clients keep momentum between sessions with brief check-ins when needed.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Shirley focus on?
Her practice addresses addictions, relationship and family conflicts, self-esteem, anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, grief, and related issues such as codependency and communication problems.
What is her therapy style like?
She uses practical, evidence-based techniques and keeps sessions straightforward. The work is collaborative and aimed at manageable steps parents can use at home.
How long has she been practicing?
Shirley brings 44 years of professional experience to her therapeutic work.
Where is she licensed and located?
She is licensed in Tennessee as a licensed marriage and family therapist, TN LMFT 1090, and practices from that state.
Which languages are supported?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.
How are fees and payments handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I get started with therapy?
Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist’s availability.

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Experience
44 years
Licensed
Tennessee
Languages
English

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