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Online therapist

Michael Cotter

Calm, practical support for parenting and life changes

Credentials
LPC
Experience
3 years
Licensed in
Missouri
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Michael

Michael Cotter is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) based in Missouri who focuses on parenting and a wide range of life and mental health concerns. He names stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, depression, relationship and family problems, grief, and parenting among the issues he addresses.

Michael uses clear, straightforward language and practical methods so families and individuals can understand options and take small steps forward. He blends client-centered listening with targeted techniques to help people change unhelpful patterns.

Background and approach

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is used to identify thinking and behavior cycles. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is included for trauma-related work. Motivational Interviewing and solution-focused ideas help people set goals and stay motivated.

Michael holds the LPC credential and brings three years of professional counseling experience. He also draws on experience working in addiction settings and with related problems such as depression, bipolar symptoms, low self-esteem, and family conflict. He aims to meet people where they are and to avoid judgment while supporting practical progress.

In sessions he listens first, then helps create simple, realistic steps. He addresses issues like communication, boundaries, abandonment, blended family concerns, fatherhood issues, and coping with loss or major life changes. For someone wrestling with parenting stress or a related family problem, his approach is steady and goal-oriented.

Sessions use plain talk and concrete plans rather than long theory lectures. He works collaboratively to tailor tools to each person’s situation and pace. The focus is on usable strategies that fit daily life.

Therapeutic approaches and how they work online

Client-Centered Therapy is about being heard first. The therapist listens carefully and follows the client's concerns, helping people find their own solutions and move at a comfortable pace. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, focuses on the link between thoughts, feelings, and actions; it offers simple tools to test and change unhelpful thinking and behaviors, which can help with anxiety, depression, and parenting stress.

Choosing the right approach is a team effort. The therapist will talk with the client about goals, history, and preferences, then suggest methods to try. If one approach does not fit, adjustments can be made so the work stays useful and grounded in the client’s priorities.

Online sessions make these approaches easier to use in daily life. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation for skill practice and emotional work. Phone sessions and live chat offer more flexibility for busy days, and text messaging can support brief check-ins or coaching between appointments. These options help people keep therapy consistent around work, school, or childcare commitments.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Existential Therapy

Takes the larger questions seriously: meaning, choice, mortality, responsibility. Suited to periods when the difficulty is less a symptom than a sense that something has to change.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns can Michael address?
He works with a broad set of issues including stress, anxiety, addictions, trauma and abuse, parenting, depression, relationship and family problems, grief, and related areas such as anger, self-esteem, and career stress.
How would he describe his therapy style?
His style is straightforward and client-centered: he listens without judgment, then helps set short-term goals and practical steps you can try between sessions.
What is his background and experience?
He holds an LPC license and has three years of professional counseling experience, along with experience working in addiction settings and related problems.
What credentials and location are listed?
He is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) with license number MO LPC 2017023723 and practices from Missouri.
Which languages and international arrangements are supported?
Sessions are offered in English and he is not accepting international clients at this time.
What formats are offered for sessions?
Sessions can be done via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different schedules and preferences.
How does cost work for sessions?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What should I do to begin working together?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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