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Online therapist

Kathleen Kaufman

Calm, practical support for family and parenting concerns

Credentials
LCSW
Experience
24 years
Licensed in
Illinois
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Kathleen

Kathleen Kaufman is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in Illinois with 24 years of experience. She works with people facing stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and parenting struggles. She also supports those dealing with trauma, grief, anger, low self-esteem, and challenges like ADHD or compassion fatigue.

Her tone is calm and direct, and she aims to make the first step feel manageable for someone who is worried or overwhelmed. Kathleen uses simple, practical conversations to identify what needs to change.

Background and approach

She focuses on problem-solving and hands-on support rather than long abstract talks. Sessions are shaped to fit each person - Kathleen adapts to different goals and life situations. Her approach draws on attachment-based ideas to look at relationship patterns and early family dynamics.

She also uses client-centered listening to understand each person’s perspective and Dialectical Behavior Therapy skills for emotion regulation when stress or crises arise. Mindfulness and motivational interviewing are part of her toolkit to build awareness and strengthen motivation. Parents often appreciate her straightforward help with parenting stress, family tensions, and communication problems.

She also addresses concerns like intimacy, career strain, and coping with life changes. Kathleen keeps recommendations practical so people can try small changes between sessions. Sessions are offered in English and arranged around individual needs.

Kathleen aims to create respectful, compassionate space where people can make steady progress toward the goals they set.

Online tools and therapy approaches that fit family life

Kathleen commonly uses attachment-based ideas and Dialectical Behavior Therapy skills in online work. Attachment-based therapy looks at how early relationship patterns shape current reactions and helps people change repeating patterns that cause stress. Dialectical Behavior Therapy, or DBT, teaches concrete skills for managing strong emotions, reducing reactivity, and improving communication in tense moments.

She also draws on client-centered listening to keep the focus on each person’s goals and values. Finding the right blend of methods is a collaborative step. The therapist will talk with the client about their needs, try approaches that fit their situation, and adjust the plan over time based on what helps most.

Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to add flexibility for busy families. These formats make it easier to fit therapy around work, childcare, and school schedules. They also let people practice skills from home and check in more easily between sessions when short support is needed.

Attachment-Based Therapy

Looks at how early bonds shaped what you expect from closeness, and how that plays out now with a partner, a parent, or your own children.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

Concrete skills for riding out strong emotion, tolerating distress, and handling relationships without things escalating. The skills are practised in daily life, so between-session support by message or phone fits naturally.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of issues does she help with?
She supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and parenting challenges, plus trauma, grief, anger, self-esteem, ADHD, and related concerns.
What is her general therapy style?
Her style is direct and practical with a calm tone. Sessions focus on clear problem-solving and small, achievable steps between visits.
How much clinical experience does she have?
She has 24 years of professional experience as a clinician working with a range of emotional and family-related issues.
What credentials and region apply?
She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, LCSW, licensed in Illinois with license number IL LCSW 149009240.
Which languages are used for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English and international clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are available?
Therapy is offered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging according to client preference.
How does payment and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a session based on the therapist's availability.

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