Ruth Vivian
Supportive therapist for family challenges
- Credentials
- LCSW
- Experience
- 5 years
- Licensed in
- Delaware
- Languages
- English
- Format
- Online sessions
About Ruth
Ruth Vivian is a licensed clinical social worker who uses practical, evidence-informed approaches to help families and parents facing stress and big life changes. She blends structured skills work with deeper trauma-focused methods to help people manage anxiety, addiction, grief, and relationship struggles. Ruth keeps language simple and sessions focused so parents can use new tools between meetings.
Ruth earned her LCSW, which stands for Licensed Clinical Social Worker, and brings five years of post-licensure experience in Delaware.
Background and approach
She draws on several therapy styles to match what a person needs in the moment rather than relying on a single method. That flexibility helps when issues overlap, such as parenting stress combined with grief or substance concerns. In sessions she teaches practical coping skills from Dialectical Behavior Therapy for emotion regulation and distress tolerance.
She also uses Trauma-Focused Therapy and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing when past events continue to cause symptoms. Those methods aim to reduce the intensity of painful memories and improve daily functioning. Ruth pays attention to relationships and attachment patterns that shape family dynamics.
She helps people notice communication habits and try small changes that can ease conflict. The work moves at a pace each person is comfortable with and focuses on clear, manageable steps. People who choose Ruth can expect a collaborative process that looks at both immediate problems and longer-term patterns.
She offers sessions in English and accepts international clients. Resources and skills are taught so parents can apply them at home between sessions.
Therapeutic approaches for online family and parenting support
Ruth frequently uses Dialectical Behavior Therapy and EMDR as part of her online work. DBT focuses on teaching concrete skills - such as emotion regulation, distress tolerance, and better communication - that help people cope with strong feelings and reduce conflict at home. EMDR is an approach for targeting memories and reactions tied to trauma, helping reduce their intensity so daily life becomes easier.Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. Ruth will work with clients to discuss needs, goals, and personal preferences before recommending DBT skills, EMDR, or other methods like trauma-focused therapy or psychodynamic work. The plan can be adjusted as therapy progresses to stay aligned with what actually helps.
Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to increase flexibility. These formats make it easier to fit therapy around parenting schedules and work commitments. They also let people practice skills in real time and check in between sessions, which can support steady progress while keeping care accessible.
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
Concrete skills for riding out strong emotion, tolerating distress, and handling relationships without things escalating. The skills are practised in daily life, so between-session support by message or phone fits naturally.
EMDR
A structured protocol used with distressing memories, pairing recall with guided attention tasks. Some therapists adapt it for video sessions; whether that fits is worth asking about directly.
Psychodynamic Therapy
Exploring how earlier relationships and patterns still shape the present, often over a longer stretch of time. It relies on conversation and reflection rather than exercises.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
- Stress, Anxiety
- Addictions
- Family conflicts
Also works with
- Abandonment
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Body image
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Codependency
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with life changes
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Depression
- Dissociation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Impulsivity
- Intellectual disability
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- LGBT
- Life purpose
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Post-traumatic stress
- Relationship issues
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Trauma and abuse
- Trichotillomania
- Women's issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 5 years
- Licensed
- Delaware
- Languages
- English
Next step
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