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Online therapist

Robert May

Compassionate counselor for life transitions

Credentials
LPCC
Experience
13 years
Licensed in
Kentucky
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Robert

Robert May is a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC) based in Kentucky with 13 years of experience. He started practicing in 2011 and has offered counseling across areas like mood and anxiety, trauma and grief, and identity concerns. Since 2020 he has focused much of his work with the LGBTQIA+ community.

He presents himself as warm, interactive, and reflective in sessions. In conversation he treats people with respect, sensitivity, and compassion.

Background and approach

He avoids stigmatizing labels and adapts to each person's needs. Sessions are shaped by what the client brings and by practical steps the client is willing to try. Robert uses a mix of methods that match the problem at hand and the client's preferences.

He draws on cognitive behavioral techniques to change unhelpful thinking and on client-centered listening to make space for the person's experience. Mindfulness and solution-focused tools are used when helpful to build coping skills and set concrete goals. For trauma-related work he employs trauma-focused strategies alongside calming practices.

He pays attention to identity, relationships, and life changes that affect wellbeing. His aim is to help people feel more capable and in control of their next steps. When someone reaches out he works collaboratively to build a plan that feels doable.

He emphasizes practical progress and supports clients as they try new approaches. The overall tone is supportive and straightforward for parents and caregivers looking for clear help.

How his approaches shape online therapy

Client-centered therapy focuses on listening and creating a respectful space. It puts the client's experience first and helps people feel understood before moving into problem solving. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at patterns of thought and behavior and offers concrete exercises to change unhelpful habits; it is often used for anxiety, depression, and stress.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. He will talk with each person about their goals and preferences and suggest methods that fit best. That plan can change over time based on what helps most, so the process stays collaborative and adaptive.

Online sessions are offered as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to make therapy more flexible. These options let people fit therapy around work, parenting, and other obligations while staying consistent with their plan. The formats also allow for shorter check-ins or longer sessions depending on needs, which helps maintain progress between visits.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Mindfulness Therapy

Attention training: noticing thoughts and physical feelings as they arrive without being carried off by them. Much of it is practice you do yourself, so guidance over video or audio works much as it would in person.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does he commonly address?
He works with stress, anxiety, mood concerns such as depression and bipolar, trauma and abuse, identity questions, parenting and family issues, relationship and intimacy matters, and related areas like sleep, eating, and workplace problems.
How would you describe his therapy style?
Sessions are warm, interactive, and reflective. He listens without using stigmatizing labels and focuses on practical steps people can try between visits.
What background and experience does he bring?
He has been practicing since 2011 and has 13 years of clinical experience, including specialized work with the LGBTQIA+ community beginning in 2020.
What are his credentials and where is he based?
He is a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor - LPCC - licensed in Kentucky with license number KY LPCC 166822.
Which languages are supported for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available?
He offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging for flexible online work.
How are fees and payment handled?
Cost varies by location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What steps are involved to begin therapy?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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Experience
13 years
Licensed
Kentucky
Languages
English

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