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Online therapist

Reed Finlayson

Calm, practical counseling for family life

Credentials
LPC
Experience
47 years
Licensed in
Idaho
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Reed

Reed Finlayson is a licensed professional counselor (LPC) based in Idaho with 47 years of experience. He focuses on listening closely to each person's story and helping them clarify the changes they want to make. Reed looks for the strengths people already use in life and builds on those abilities.

He invites straightforward conversation and asks practical questions to help people see options they might have missed. In sessions he points out patterns and offers observations, but he expects change to come from the client's own decisions.

Background and approach

He helps people identify small, concrete steps toward their goals. He also asks for regular feedback so the work can be adjusted as needed. Reed uses familiar, evidence-based approaches like client-centered methods, cognitive behavioral ideas, and mindfulness tools to support practical change.

He will discuss different ways to work together and tailor techniques to each situation. Parents and families who are focused on improving communication or handling transitions often find this hands-on, skill-building style helpful. His work covers a range of concerns including stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, parenting, anger, depression, addictions, relationship and family problems, grief, and coping with life changes.

Reed also addresses related issues such as codependency, control and family of origin matters. He emphasizes finding what already works and using it to manage challenges. Sessions aim to produce clear steps and a shared plan.

Reed helps clients define what success looks like for them and supports steady progress toward those goals.

Approaches that guide online family and parenting support

Reed commonly draws on client-centered therapy and cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) when working online. Client-centered therapy focuses on listening and reflecting back what matters most to the person, which helps people clarify their goals and feel heard. CBT looks at specific thoughts and behaviors and teaches practical skills to reduce anxiety, manage anger, or change unhelpful patterns.

He also uses elements of mindfulness and dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) to help with emotional regulation and staying present during stressful moments. Mindfulness teaches simple attention skills that reduce overwhelm. DBT supplies step-by-step coping tools for strong emotions and crisis moments.

Reed approaches online work as a collaborative process. He will talk with each client about their needs and try different techniques to find what fits best. Together they set clear goals and choose methods that match those goals and the family's day-to-day life.

Online sessions are offered by licensed professionals through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. These options make it easier to fit therapy into busy schedules and to keep work moving between appointments. Many families find the flexibility helpful when managing parenting responsibilities, work, and other commitments.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

Concrete skills for riding out strong emotion, tolerating distress, and handling relationships without things escalating. The skills are practised in daily life, so between-session support by message or phone fits naturally.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of issues does Reed work with?
He addresses stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, parenting, anger, depression, addictions, relationship and family problems, grief, and coping with life changes, plus related concerns like codependency and communication problems.
How would you describe his therapeutic style?
Reed listens for strengths and asks practical questions. He offers observations and helps clients create clear, do-able steps toward their goals.
How long has he been practicing?
He brings 47 years of experience providing counseling services to adults, families, and children.
What are his credentials and where is he located?
He is a licensed professional counselor, LPC, license ID LPC-7884, and practices in Idaho.
Which languages are supported for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available?
Sessions can be scheduled as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.
How does payment work and what does it cost?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Select the Start Therapy button, fill out a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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