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Online therapist

Lara Ashbaugh

Calm, practical help for everyday parenting stress

Credentials
LPC
Experience
10 years
Licensed in
Missouri
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Lara

Lara Ashbaugh is a licensed professional counselor (LPC) who uses practical, evidence-based approaches to help people manage stress, anxiety, and life transitions. She draws on cognitive behavioral therapy and acceptance and commitment therapy to teach skills for coping with hard moments. Her style is warm and interactive, and she focuses on concrete tools rather than labels.

She brings ten years of clinical experience and has worked with a wide range of concerns.

Background and approach

These include depression, grief, self-esteem, addictions, trauma and abuse, ADHD, bipolar, and parenting challenges. She also addresses issues such as career stress, anger, compassion fatigue, and sexual health topics like BDSM and kink when clients raise them. In sessions she helps clients notice what matters to them and build small, doable habits toward those values.

That can mean learning new ways to respond to strong emotions, practicing mindfulness, or restructuring unhelpful thoughts. She also uses dialectical behavior therapy techniques to strengthen coping skills and relationships. Lara pays attention to strengths and what is already working.

She combines structured strategies with open listening so each plan fits the person in front of her. She avoids stigmatizing labels and treats people with respect and sensitivity. For someone ready to change, she offers steady support and practical coaching.

The first step is a short match and scheduling process that leads to the right format for ongoing work.

Therapeutic approaches suited to online care

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice what matters to them and commit to small actions that reflect those values. It emphasizes present-moment awareness and practical behavior change for issues like anxiety, depression, and coping with life transitions.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying patterns of thinking that feed distress and testing new, more helpful thoughts and behaviors. It is useful for stress, mood difficulties, and many common symptoms where changing responses makes a difference.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) provides concrete skills for managing strong emotions, improving relationships, and tolerating distress. It is often used alongside mindfulness and CBT techniques to build steady coping tools.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what has or has not helped before. Together they decide which methods to try and adjust them as work progresses.

Online therapy offers flexibility through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. These options make it easier to fit sessions into busy days and to continue work during life changes. Licensed professionals can teach the same ACT, CBT, and DBT skills remotely so clients can practice them between sessions and build lasting routines.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

Less about arguing with difficult thoughts, more about loosening their grip and acting on what matters to you anyway. Values and committed action carry the work, which suits conversation at a distance.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems can be addressed?
Lara works with concerns such as stress, anxiety, depression, grief, parenting issues, addictions, trauma and abuse, ADHD, bipolar, self-esteem, and related life changes.
What is her approach to therapy?
Her approach blends cognitive behavioral therapy and acceptance and commitment therapy with dialectical behavior therapy skills and mindfulness practices. Sessions focus on practical skills, values, and small changes clients can use at home.
How much clinical experience does she have?
She has ten years of experience working as a therapist, supervisor, and teacher in clinical settings.
Where is she licensed and what are her credentials?
She holds the credential LPC - Licensed Professional Counselor, with Missouri license number MO LPC 2007035135 and practices in Missouri.
Which languages are supported for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available?
Therapy can be delivered via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How are costs and billing handled?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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