Debra Wallace
Restoring connection and parenting confidence
- Credentials
- LMFT
- Experience
- 21 years
- Licensed in
- Illinois, Wisconsin
- Languages
- English
- Format
- Online sessions
About Debra
Debra Wallace is a licensed marriage and family therapist who helps people facing relationship strain, trauma and abuse, intimacy concerns, parenting challenges, depression, addictions, and sleep problems. She uses a direct and compassionate style aimed at creating a calm space where people can talk about hard things without judgment.
Debra speaks English and practices from Illinois as a licensed professional with over two decades of experience. Her approach is practical and relational.
Background and approach
She pays attention to how past attachments shape current relationships and uses techniques that help partners and individuals reconnect emotionally. Sessions include listening, reflecting, and teaching skills for clearer communication and healthier boundaries. Debra uses evidence-informed tools such as Emotionally-Focused Therapy to strengthen emotional bonds and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing to address traumatic memories.
She also draws on mindfulness practices to reduce stress and the Gottman Method to improve day-to-day interactions in close relationships. These methods are woven into a plan that fits each person’s needs. Therapy with her often includes concrete steps to try between sessions.
She helps clients practice new ways of speaking and relating. Progress is tracked in manageable ways so change feels realistic rather than overwhelming. With 21 years as an LMFT, Debra brings steady experience and a calm presence.
She emphasizes collaboration and works with clients to set clear goals and adjust the plan as needed.
How attachment and trauma work online
Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how early bonds shape current relationships and helps people notice patterns in how they connect or withdraw; it is useful for relationship strain and parenting concerns. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) helps partners and individuals identify emotions under the surface and learn new ways to respond, which can reduce conflict and increase closeness. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) works with traumatic memories by pairing guided processing with bilateral stimulation to reduce the hold of painful memories and related symptoms.Finding the right method is part of the process. The therapist will talk with clients about goals, past experiences, and preferences, and together they will choose which approach to try first. Plans are adjusted over time so the work matches what actually helps the person or family.
Online therapy offers flexibility for people with busy schedules or those who cannot travel to an office. Sessions can be done via video calls, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging so clients can pick the format that fits their life. This variety makes it easier to keep appointments, practice skills between sessions, and maintain continuity as needs change.
Attachment-Based Therapy
Looks at how early bonds shaped what you expect from closeness, and how that plays out now with a partner, a parent, or your own children.
Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)
Attends to the emotions underneath a recurring argument or distance, and to the attachment needs driving them. Often used where a relationship keeps returning to the same painful loop.
EMDR
A structured protocol used with distressing memories, pairing recall with guided attention tasks. Some therapists adapt it for video sessions; whether that fits is worth asking about directly.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
- Intimacy-related issues
Also works with
- Abandonment
- Addictions
- Adoption and foster care
- Attachment issues
- Blended family issues
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Codependency
- Communication problems
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)
- Dissociation
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Guilt and shame
- Mood disorders
- Panic disorder and panic attacks
- Parenting issues
- Post-traumatic stress
- Postpartum depression
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Women's issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 21 years
- Licensed
- Illinois, Wisconsin
- Languages
- English
Next step
Talk to Debra
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- Nothing to set up just to look
- Stop at any point