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Online therapist

Tanya DesArmo

Compassionate guidance for family and parenting concerns

Credentials
LCSW
Experience
16 years
Licensed in
Wisconsin
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Tanya

Tanya DesArmo is a licensed clinical social worker who helps people navigate family tensions and parenting challenges. She focuses on practical steps parents can take when stress, anxiety, or relationship strain makes daily life harder. Tanya speaks plainly and supports clients in finding their own strengths and next steps.

Her style centers on listening first and following the client’s lead. She uses clear tools from cognitive behavioral therapy to spot unhelpful thoughts and from solution-focused methods to set small, realistic goals.

Background and approach

Mindfulness techniques are woven in to help with stress, sleep, and emotional regulation. With sixteen years of experience, Tanya draws on a variety of settings where she supported people facing trauma, adoption and foster care issues, and addiction recovery. She also addresses concerns such as grief, bipolar and depression, compassion fatigue, and challenges around self-worth and body image.

Her practice includes work around money stress, life transitions, and finding purpose. Tanya explains things in everyday language and helps people try concrete strategies between sessions. She encourages clients to notice what works and to adjust plans when needed.

The aim is steady, achievable progress rather than quick fixes. Sessions are geared toward building skills that carry into family life and parenting routines. Tanya emphasizes collaboration and respects each person’s story while helping them move toward clearer priorities and healthier patterns.

Approaches that guide online care

Tanya uses client-centered therapy, which means she focuses on understanding each person’s perspective and follows their priorities when planning sessions. This approach helps clients feel heard and shapes goals that matter to them.

She also draws on cognitive behavioral therapy or CBT to identify thoughts and behaviors that increase stress or conflict. CBT provides clear, step-by-step techniques for managing anxiety, improving sleep, and changing patterns that affect family life and parenting.

Finding the right approach is a team effort. Tanya discusses options with clients and adjusts techniques to match their goals, needs, and preferences. She encourages trying different methods and keeping what helps most.

Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging, which gives practical flexibility for busy family schedules. These formats make it easier to fit therapy into weekdays, caregiving routines, and work demands, while still allowing regular check-ins and progress over time.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Mindfulness Therapy

Attention training: noticing thoughts and physical feelings as they arrive without being carried off by them. Much of it is practice you do yourself, so guidance over video or audio works much as it would in person.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Tanya address?
She works with family problems, parenting issues, trauma and abuse, addiction, anxiety, depression, grief, and related worries like sleep and self-esteem.
What is her general therapeutic style?
Tanya listens first and follows the client’s lead while offering practical tools from client-centered, cognitive behavioral, mindfulness, and solution-focused approaches.
How much experience does she have?
She has sixteen years of professional experience working with people on family conflict, foster care and adoption issues, and parenting support.
What are her credentials and where is she licensed?
She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker - LCSW, licensed in Wisconsin with license number WI LCSW 7843-123.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English only and international clients are not accepted.
In what formats are sessions available?
Therapy is available by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to suit different needs and schedules.
How is pricing handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with Tanya?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

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