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TS Portrait of Tamara "Tammy" Hardcastle Stickler
Online therapist

Tamara "Tammy" Hardcastle Stickler

Compassionate family and parenting support

Credentials
LCSW
Experience
20 years
Licensed in
California
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Tamara

Tamara "Tammy" Hardcastle Stickler is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with 20 years of experience. She supports people facing relationship struggles, family conflicts, grief and loss, parenting challenges, self-esteem concerns, career shifts, and major life changes. Tammy speaks plainly and focuses on practical steps that families can try between sessions.

She reminds clients they know their own stories and brings tools to help move forward. Her approach centers on listening first and then offering clear strategies.

Background and approach

Tammy helps people name patterns in communication and behavior. She works with issues tied to adoption and foster care, aging and geriatric needs, cancer and chronic illness, caregiver stress, and end-of-life concerns. Those topics often involve strong emotions and practical decisions, and she aims to address both.

Tammy also supports people dealing with mood changes, postpartum depression, pregnancy and childbirth concerns, and feelings of isolation or lack of purpose. She brings two decades of practice to situations involving chronic pain, control issues, forgiveness work, and rebuilding self-love. Sessions are conversational and goal-focused, so families leave with next steps.

Licensed in California as an LCSW - Licensed Clinical Social Worker - Tammy combines real-world experience with evidence-based methods. She offers sessions in English using video calls, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging. Getting started begins with a short matching questionnaire and scheduling to align with the therapist's availability.

Practical approaches for family and online care

Tammy uses evidence-based techniques that help people manage real-life family and relationship problems. One approach focuses on communication skills - teaching clear listening and speaking strategies that reduce arguments and increase understanding. This method is useful when families need better ways to talk about difficult topics.

Another approach concentrates on coping and problem-solving. Tammy helps clients break big problems into smaller steps and practice skills between sessions. This approach is often helpful for managing grief, caregiver stress, chronic illness, and life transitions.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Tammy starts by listening to what matters most, then suggests methods that match the client's goals and preferences. She adjusts plans as needs change so the work stays practical and relevant.

Online sessions are offered by video calls, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to provide flexibility. These options make it easier to fit therapy into busy family schedules, to follow up after appointments, and to use short check-ins when helpful. Tammy aims to make therapy accessible and usable for everyday life.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Tammy commonly help with?
Tammy works with relationship and family problems, grief and loss, parenting questions, self-esteem, career change, and coping with life changes. She also addresses adoption and foster care, caregiver stress, chronic illness, and end-of-life matters.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
Her style is direct and conversational. She listens first, helps name patterns, and offers practical steps clients can try between sessions.
What is her background and experience?
She has 20 years of professional experience working with family and relationship issues and related concerns. That experience includes supporting people through grief, parenting difficulties, and health-related caregiving challenges.
What credentials and location are listed for this therapist?
She is licensed in California with the credential LCSW and license number CA LCSW 28700.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English.
In what formats are sessions available?
Sessions can be done by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.
How does payment and cost work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
What steps are needed to begin therapy?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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