Rekeeshella Elder
Compassionate, practical family-focused therapy
- Credentials
- LMFT
- Experience
- 9 years
- Licensed in
- California
- Languages
- English
- Format
- Online sessions
About Rekeeshella
Rekeeshella Elder is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) in California who helps people facing stress, anxiety, relationship and family troubles, grief, and low self-esteem. She draws on nine years of clinical experience to offer steady, practical support when life feels overwhelming. Rekeeshella emphasizes respect, sensitivity, and compassion in every session.
She provides clear, straightforward guidance and listens closely to what matters to each person. Her approach is collaborative and tailored.
Background and approach
Sessions focus on what is most useful right now, whether that means learning new ways to handle stress, improving communication, or addressing family patterns. She uses techniques from cognitive behavioral therapy to challenge unhelpful thoughts, and from solution-focused work to set small, realistic goals.
Rekeeshella also uses acceptance and commitment therapy to help people live by their values, and emotionally-focused therapy to address relationship and attachment concerns. She adapts her methods to fit each person's needs and pace. Conversations are practical and goal-oriented, not abstract or overly technical.
Therapy with her can include talking through past family of origin issues, navigating blended family challenges, coping with loss, or managing caregiver stress and chronic illness. She is attentive to issues like abandonment, codependency, control, and communication problems. Sessions are offered in English and take place while she practices in California.
Rekeeshella helps clients plan steps they can use outside sessions so change can continue between meetings.
Therapy approaches you can use online
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people notice painful thoughts and feelings without letting them dictate actions, and then choose behavior that fits their values. It can be useful for stress, anxiety, and feeling stuck. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at patterns of thinking and behavior and helps build skills to shift unhelpful thoughts and responses; it is often used for anxiety and low self-esteem. Emotionally-Focused Therapy focuses on emotions and attachment needs in relationships, helping people repair connection and improve communication.Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will talk with each person about their goals and preferences and try different methods to see what fits best. That decision is collaborative and can change as progress is made.
Online therapy offers practical benefits like flexible scheduling and easier access from home. Sessions can take place by video call, by phone, or through live chat and text-based messaging, which can make it easier to stay consistent. These options help people maintain regular contact and practice new skills between meetings.
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)
Less about arguing with difficult thoughts, more about loosening their grip and acting on what matters to you anyway. Values and committed action carry the work, which suits conversation at a distance.
Client-Centered Therapy
The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
Also works with
- Abandonment
- Attachment issues
- Blended family issues
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Co-morbidity
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Control issues
- Coping with natural or human-caused disaster
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- First responder issues
- Forgiveness
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Mood disorders
- Self esteem
- Self-harm
- Self-love
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 9 years
- Licensed
- California
- Languages
- English
Next step
Talk to Rekeeshella
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