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Online therapist

Mary Hartenstein

Practical support for life changes

Credentials
LCSW
Experience
5 years
Licensed in
Louisiana
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Mary

Mary Hartenstein is a licensed clinical social worker in Louisiana with five years of professional experience. She focuses on practical help for people dealing with stress, anxiety, addictions, grief, eating concerns, and life transitions. Mary uses straightforward, solution-focused work to help people identify what’s already working and build from there.

She believes clients know their own stories and brings a supportive presence to help them take the next steps. In sessions she listens for strengths and small changes that can lead to better days.

Background and approach

Her approach aims to be clear and goal-oriented rather than overly technical. Mary draws on Solution-Focused Therapy to set concrete, short-term goals. That method is useful for tackling specific problems like coping with change, managing anger, or addressing substance concerns.

She also addresses family and parenting topics as part of broader life adjustments and relationship struggles. In practice she talks through practical strategies, communication skills, and ways to reduce stress. She pays attention to patterns like family of origin issues, blended family concerns, and caregiver stress when they come up.

The tone in sessions is encouraging and focused on small, achievable steps. People who want a clear plan and an empathetic guide may find this style helpful. Mary supports work on self-esteem, body image, forgiveness, and the emotional side of caregiving.

She emphasizes collaboration and steady progress toward the goals a person sets.

Solution-Focused Care Delivered Online

Mary uses Solution-Focused Therapy, which centers on small, practical steps and clear goals. This approach asks what a person wants to be different and builds on what already works, making it useful for stress, coping with life changes, anger, and addiction-related concerns.

In sessions she keeps the focus on achievable changes and on strengthening existing skills. That collaborative process helps decide which techniques to try first and how to measure progress. The therapist and client work together to tailor the plan to the client’s needs and preferences.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit varied schedules and comfort levels. These options make it easier to work on concrete goals without traveling, and they allow check-ins and real-time adjustments as progress is made. Licensed professionals can adapt solution-focused work to each format so practical planning and follow-through stay central to the therapy process.

Solution-Focused Therapy

Rather than examining the problem at length, this looks at what is already working and builds on it. Sessions tend to be practical and forward-looking, with small achievable steps, which translates readily to shorter online conversations.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she address?
Mary works with stress, anxiety, addictions, grief, eating and anger issues, and related life changes. She also focuses on parenting and family topics and several related areas like caregiver stress and body image.
What is her general therapy style?
She uses a solution-focused approach that aims for clear, short-term goals. Sessions emphasize practical steps and building on existing strengths.
How much clinical experience does she have?
She has five years of professional work experience in clinical settings. That experience includes addressing addictions, relationship and communication issues, and life adjustments.
What are her credentials and where is she licensed?
Mary holds the credential LCSW, licensed clinical social worker, and is licensed in Louisiana with license number LA LCSW 3488.
Which languages are supported?
Sessions are offered in English.
Can international clients work together?
International clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are available?
Sessions can be conducted via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different preferences.
How does pricing and getting started work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and uses a cancel-anytime subscription model. To begin, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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