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Online therapist

Lesley Schwam

Experienced solution-focused LMFT

Credentials
LMFT
Experience
12 years
Licensed in
California
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Lesley

Lesley Schwam is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) based in California. She uses practical, goal-focused methods to help people change daily habits and move forward. Lesley frames therapy as a place to learn new coping skills and build clear steps toward goals.

Her tone is straightforward and solution-oriented. Lesley brings 12 years of clinical experience to her work. She applies Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people notice and change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors.

Background and approach

She also uses Solution-Focused Therapy to identify small, concrete steps that produce quick progress. Her background includes addressing anxiety, depression, trauma and grief. Lesley also supports people facing addictions, relationship and intimacy-related issues, anger, and self-esteem concerns.

She helps with life transitions like career changes and adjusting to new roles. In early sessions she focuses on practical self-care and coping strategies. She works with clients to set short- and long-term goals, and to practice boundary setting and clearer communication.

The emphasis is on what to do between sessions to create momentum. Lesley also has experience with blended family issues, caregiver stress, chronic illness and pain, and family of origin problems. She helps people manage control issues, forgiveness, guilt and shame, and the challenges that come with separation or divorce.

Her approach is steady and focused on tangible steps people can try right away.

How Lesley’s Approaches Work Online

Lesley uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to help people notice patterns of thinking and behavior that keep them stuck, then practices new ways of responding. This approach can help with anxiety, depression, panic, and unhelpful habits by teaching simple skills to use between sessions.

She also draws on Solution-Focused Therapy to zoom in on attainable goals and steps that move a person forward quickly. This method is useful for life transitions, career changes, setting boundaries, and solving specific problems in everyday life.

Deciding which approach to use is a collaborative process. The therapist listens to your goals and preferences, then suggests strategies and adjusts them based on what works. Together you’ll monitor progress and change the plan as needed so the work stays practical and relevant.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. These options provide flexibility for busy schedules and can make it easier to keep momentum between appointments. The variety of formats also allows people to choose how they communicate when addressing stress, grief, relationship concerns, or adjustments to new life roles.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Solution-Focused Therapy

Rather than examining the problem at length, this looks at what is already working and builds on it. Sessions tend to be practical and forward-looking, with small achievable steps, which translates readily to shorter online conversations.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Lesley commonly address?
She works with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, grief, depression, addictions, self-esteem, relationship and intimacy issues, anger, career transitions, ADHD, and family-related concerns among others.
What is Lesley’s therapeutic style?
Her work is practical and goal-focused, using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Solution-Focused Therapy to identify steps clients can take between sessions.
How much clinical experience does she have?
Lesley has 12 years of experience working with a range of issues including trauma, PTSD, panic attacks, grief, and life transitions.
What are her credentials and where is she licensed?
She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, LMFT, licensed in California with license number CA LMFT 85910.
Which languages are supported for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available?
Therapy is offered through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging.
How are sessions paid for and what do costs look like?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with Lesley?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

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