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Online therapist

Desiree Malam

Family-focused counselor for practical change

Credentials
LPC
Experience
15 years
Licensed in
Missouri
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Desiree

Desiree Malam is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Missouri who draws on 15 years of clinical experience. She uses clear, goal-focused methods to help people manage stress, anxiety, relationship problems, grief, and trauma. Her style is direct and compassionate, aimed at helping parents and individuals feel understood and find practical steps forward.

In sessions she creates an open space for honest conversation. She listens without judgment and helps clients name what feels most urgent.

Background and approach

Together they set small, doable goals and track progress over time. Desiree often combines cognitive behavioral techniques with solution-focused work. That means she helps clients notice unhelpful thoughts and then build simple strategies to change patterns.

She also draws on trauma-focused tools when past harm affects daily life. Her work includes support around intimacy, parenting, blended family challenges, postpartum depression, and caregiver stress. She also addresses issues like self-esteem, anger, eating concerns, and career transitions.

Desiree brings practical coaching alongside therapy to help people act on the changes they want. Clients typically find sessions practical and action-oriented. The focus is on real-world solutions that fit family life.

Desiree helps people take manageable steps toward clearer communication and steadier emotions.

Therapeutic approaches for online family and parenting support

Desiree commonly uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to help people identify unhelpful thoughts and try new ways of thinking and behaving. CBT is useful for anxiety, depression, and everyday stress because it breaks problems into small, changeable pieces.

She also draws on Solution-Focused Therapy to set clear, short-term goals and build on what already works in a family's life. This approach zeroes in on practical steps and quick wins that fit into busy routines.

Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will listen to your goals and suggest methods that match your needs and preferences. Together you can adjust the plan if something does not feel like a good fit.

Online sessions are offered as video calls, phone meetings, live chat, or text-based messaging to make therapy more flexible. These formats let parents and individuals fit sessions around school, work, and caregiving. Many people appreciate being able to meet from home and use a mix of live and text options between sessions to keep momentum going.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

Concrete skills for riding out strong emotion, tolerating distress, and handling relationships without things escalating. The skills are practised in daily life, so between-session support by message or phone fits naturally.

Motivational Interviewing

A way of working through mixed feelings about change without being pushed. The therapist helps you weigh things up and find your own reasons, which often makes a difficult decision feel less stuck.

Frequently asked questions

What issues does Desiree help with?
She works with a wide range of concerns including stress, anxiety, relationship and intimacy issues, trauma and abuse, grief, depression, parenting challenges, and ADHD among others.
What is her therapeutic style?
She uses practical, goal-focused methods such as cognitive behavioral and solution-focused approaches, and adapts to include trauma-focused or dialectical skills when needed.
How much clinical experience does she have?
Desiree has 15 years of professional experience working with people on a range of emotional and relationship concerns.
What are her credentials and where is she licensed?
She is a Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, licensed in Missouri with licence number MO LPC 2013006416.
Which languages are supported?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available?
Sessions can be scheduled as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different needs and routines.
How is cost handled for therapy?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What steps are needed to begin therapy?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

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