Deana Porter
Calm, practical therapy for family challenges
- Credentials
- LMFT
- Experience
- 29 years
- Licensed in
- California
- Languages
- English
- Format
- Online sessions
About Deana
Deana Porter is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) who uses practical, evidence-informed methods to address relationship and family concerns. She focuses on everyday problems that wear people down - stress, anxiety, low self-esteem, grief, and parenting struggles.
Deana aims to create a calm space to talk through what feels stuck and make small, useful changes that help at home and in relationships. She draws on 29 years of clinical experience in California and adapts sessions to each person’s situation.
Background and approach
Conversations are guided by clear goals and exercises that feel relevant to daily life. Deana pays attention to how patterns in relationships and family history shape current challenges. Her work includes support for recovery after trauma, intimacy-related issues, and mood concerns like depression and bipolar disorder.
She also addresses practical family topics such as blended family dynamics, adoption and foster care questions, fatherhood issues, and caregiving stress. Sessions often include skills practice for managing emotions and communication. Deana uses several well-established approaches to guide therapy.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy helps identify and change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors. Dialectical Behavior Therapy offers coping skills for strong emotions. The Gottman Method supports improving communication between partners, and Internal Family Systems helps people understand inner parts that drive behavior.
She tailors the conversation and plan to each person’s needs. Deana aims to support realistic steps toward a less stressful, more connected life, and to do so with respect and compassion.
Therapeutic approaches and online support
Deana commonly uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and the Gottman Method when appropriate. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is about spotting unhelpful thoughts and habits, then practicing clearer ways of thinking and behaving to reduce anxiety or low mood. The Gottman Method focuses on improving communication and problem-solving between partners, with practical exercises to rebuild connection.Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will discuss goals, preferences, and what feels most helpful, then try methods that fit the client’s situation. This is a collaborative process where plans are adjusted based on what actually helps.
Online therapy offers flexible ways to get support. Video calls let people work from home while phone sessions can be less formal and easier to fit into a day. Live chat and text-based messaging allow brief check-ins and ongoing skill practice between longer sessions. These options make it easier to maintain continuity of care while accommodating busy family schedules.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
Concrete skills for riding out strong emotion, tolerating distress, and handling relationships without things escalating. The skills are practised in daily life, so between-session support by message or phone fits naturally.
Gottman Method
A research-based framework for couples, focused on how partners argue, repair, and stay connected. Practical and structured, with exercises to try between sessions.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
- Relationship issues
- Family conflicts
- Trauma and abuse
Also works with
- Adoption and foster care
- Aging and geriatric issues
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Bipolar disorder
- Blended family issues
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Coping with life changes
- Dependent personality
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Eating disorders
- Emptiness
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Fatherhood issues
- Grief
- Guilt and shame
- Hoarding
- Impulsivity
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Jealousy
- Life purpose
- Midlife crisis
- Money and financial issues
- Narcissism
- Parenting issues
- Self esteem
- Sexual dysfunction
- Sexuality
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Stress, Anxiety
- Women's issues
- Workplace issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 29 years
- Licensed
- California
- Languages
- English
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