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Online therapist

Dana Lapsley

Empathetic family-focused support

Credentials
LCSW
Experience
4 years
Licensed in
California
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Dana

Dana Lapsley is a licensed clinical social worker who focuses on family and parenting concerns as well as stress, anxiety, and life transitions. She offers straightforward support for parents and caregivers who are worried about family dynamics, a child’s anxiety, or sudden changes at home. Her tone is calm and practical, aimed at helping families find clearer ways to manage everyday strains.

Dana draws on four years of clinical experience in California and adapts conversations to each family's needs.

Background and approach

Sessions are collaborative and paced to what feels manageable for parents and children. She listens first, then helps set small, realistic goals that build trust and routine. In session she uses evidence-based techniques to address specific worries like obsessive thoughts, control issues, or low self-esteem.

She also brings experience with adoption and foster care questions and common family challenges such as communication problems, codependency, and boundary setting. The work is practical and focused on skills families can use between meetings. Dana emphasizes respect, sensitivity, and compassion.

She aims to make change feel possible rather than overwhelming. Parents can expect a tailored plan that fits their house rules, schedules, and strengths. Therapy with Dana can include short-term problem solving or longer-term support for recurring patterns.

She supports younger clients including children, teens, and young adults and adjusts her approach to match each person’s age and stage.

Approaches that fit family life and online care

Two evidence-based approaches often used in Dana's work are skills-based behavioral strategies and problem-focused talk. Skills-based behavioral strategies teach practical routines, coping steps, and small habit changes that help with anxiety, OCD-like behaviors, and stress. Problem-focused talk targets specific family patterns and communication problems so parents and kids can try new ways of relating.

A third approach is strength-oriented support that highlights what a family already does well and builds on those successes. This helps with motivation, self-esteem, and the sense of purpose that can get lost during changes like adoption or shifts in family roles.

Choosing an approach is a joint process. Dana works with each family to decide what to try first based on the child's age, current problems, and what parents feel ready to practice. Plans are adjusted over time if something isn’t helping, so therapy stays practical and relevant.

Online sessions make it easier to fit therapy into busy family schedules. Video calls let Dana see family interactions and coach in the moment. Phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging offer shorter check-ins, flexible follow-ups, or support between sessions. These options are intended to increase convenience and keep progress moving when life is hectic.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Dana help with?
Dana works with stress, anxiety, relationship and family problems, self-esteem, and coping with life changes. She also addresses issues like OCD symptoms, codependency, body image, and communication problems.
What is her therapy style like?
Sessions are practical and collaborative. Dana listens first, then helps set small goals and teaches skills families can use at home.
How much clinical experience does she have?
She has four years of clinical experience working in California settings with children, teens, and young adults.
What are her credentials and where is she based?
She holds a Licensed Clinical Social Worker credential - LCSW - with California license number CA LCSW 128735 and practices in California.
Which languages are available for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English.
Can she work with people outside the United States?
International clients are not currently accepted; services are provided to clients located in California.
What session formats does she use?
Sessions can be held via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.
How are costs and getting started handled?
Cost varies by location and therapist availability and uses a subscription that can be canceled at any time. To begin, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule based on availability.

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