Cathleen Stafford, LMFT - Therapist in California

About Cathleen

Cathleen Stafford is a licensed marriage and family therapist with 25 years of clinical experience. She centers sessions on the client's perspective and strengths. Cathleen speaks plainly and helps people take small steps toward change.

She encourages courage for anyone starting therapy and meets clients where they are. Her work blends several practical approaches to address stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and parenting concerns. She uses Client-Centered Therapy to listen closely and prioritize each person’s goals.

Background and approach

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is applied when unhelpful thoughts or habits are getting in the way. Emotionally-Focused Therapy helps people understand and shift emotional patterns that affect intimacy. Cathleen also draws on Solution-Focused Therapy to set clear, short-term goals and Internal Family Systems to map different parts of a person’s inner experience.

These methods are chosen to fit the problem at hand, whether it’s communication problems, midlife questions, or postpartum depression. She adapts techniques so they are practical and easy to use between sessions. Her practice addresses a range of family and parenting-related issues, including blended family challenges, divorce and separation, and family of origin concerns.

She also works with caregiver stress, forgiveness and infidelity, and young adult issues. Cathleen treats veteran and armed forces issues among her focus areas as well. Based in California, Cathleen holds CA LMFT 37242 and conducts therapy in English.

She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different schedules.

Therapeutic approaches that work well online

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and building trust. The therapist mirrors back what a person says and helps them clarify goals and priorities, which can be especially useful when dealing with parenting stress or life transitions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at how thoughts influence feelings and actions. In online sessions this often means practicing new ways of thinking and trying small behavior changes between meetings to reduce anxiety and depressive symptoms. Emotionally-Focused Therapy helps people name and shift the emotions that shape their relationships. It supports clearer communication and stronger emotional connection, which can be helpful for intimacy-related concerns and family tensions. Finding the right approach is part of the process. The therapist works collaboratively with each person to choose methods that fit their needs, goals, and preferences. Techniques may be adjusted over time based on what is most helpful. Online therapy offers practical benefits like flexible scheduling and reduced travel time. Video calls allow face-to-face interaction, phone sessions work for those on the go, and live chat or text-based messaging can support brief check-ins or ongoing encouragement. These options make it easier to fit therapy into a busy family life while keeping the focus on real, usable changes.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)

Attends to the emotions underneath a recurring argument or distance, and to the attachment needs driving them. Often used where a relationship keeps returning to the same painful loop.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems can be addressed here?

Cathleen works with stress, anxiety, depression, intimacy-related issues, and parenting concerns. Additional focus areas include blended family issues, caregiver stress, communication problems, divorce and separation, and postpartum depression.

What is her general therapeutic style?

She combines Client-Centered listening with goal-oriented techniques like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Solution-Focused Therapy. Sessions tend to be practical and focused on small, usable changes.

How much experience does this therapist have?

Cathleen brings 25 years of professional experience to her practice. That background informs a range of approaches she uses to address family and parenting concerns.

What are the therapist's credentials and location?

She is a licensed marriage and family therapist, CA LMFT 37242, practicing in California. Therapy is offered in English.

Are sessions available to people outside the United States?

International clients are not currently accepted. Sessions are offered in English and provided within the therapist's stated practice region.

Which session formats are offered?

Sessions can be scheduled as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. These formats are used to provide flexibility for different needs and schedules.

How does pricing work for therapy here?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time. Exact fees are provided during the sign-up and matching process.

What steps are involved in getting started?

Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then scheduling according to therapist availability. The questionnaire helps match you with a therapist who fits your needs.

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Experience: 25 years
Licensed: California
Languages: English

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