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Online therapist

Valerie Novak

Warm practical therapy for families and parents

Credentials
LMFT
Experience
10 years
Licensed in
California
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Valerie

Valerie Novak is a licensed marriage and family therapist who blends practical methods with respectful listening. She uses clear, goal-oriented strategies alongside careful attention to personal history. Valerie focuses on family and parenting concerns as well as stress, anxiety, and relationship conflicts.

She also addresses depression, addiction-related struggles, grief, and changes in life roles. Clients can expect straightforward guidance and a steady, respectful presence in sessions. Valerie emphasizes that people know their own stories best and she helps them use their strengths.

Background and approach

She draws on evidence-based tools to address unhelpful thoughts and patterns. Sessions aim to be collaborative and focused on small, useful changes. Her work includes attachment-informed ideas to improve connection and safety in close relationships.

She also uses cognitive behavioral techniques to challenge thinking patterns and develop coping skills. For clients with traumatic memories, she integrates EMDR to reduce the intensity of distressing experiences. Valerie brings ten years of professional experience in California to her practice.

She supports people dealing with caregiver stress, end-of-life concerns, adoption and foster care issues, and isolation or loneliness. Communication problems, forgiveness, and guilt or shame are also areas she addresses. Therapy typically moves at the client's pace and focuses on practical steps that fit daily life.

Valerie encourages people to notice progress between sessions and to try small experiments that support their goals.

Therapeutic approaches for online family and parenting work

Valerie commonly uses attachment-based ideas and cognitive behavioral therapy to guide online work. Attachment-based therapy looks at how past and present relationships affect how people feel and relate now, and it helps rebuild trust and connection. Cognitive behavioral therapy focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and trying practical behavior changes to improve mood and daily functioning.

She also brings in EMDR for those carrying strong traumatic memories. EMDR uses guided attention to reduce the emotional charge of distressing memories and can make daily triggers less intense for some people. These approaches are offered collaboratively - the therapist and client discuss goals and try methods that fit the client's needs and comfort level.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. Valerie will talk with clients about what they want to change, what has or hasn't worked before, and what feels doable. Together they pick techniques and pace work so the plan fits family life and parenting demands.

Online sessions include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to provide flexibility. These options help people fit therapy around busy schedules, caregiving duties, and work, and they make it easier to keep continuity when life is chaotic.

Attachment-Based Therapy

Looks at how early bonds shaped what you expect from closeness, and how that plays out now with a partner, a parent, or your own children.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Valerie work with?
She addresses stress, anxiety, relationship and family issues, parenting, depression, addictions, trauma and abuse, grief, anger, self-esteem, and career and life changes.
What is her general approach to therapy?
Valerie uses a blend of client-centered listening, attachment-informed work, cognitive behavioral techniques, EMDR, narrative approaches, and solution-focused methods to help people make practical changes.
How much experience does she have?
She has ten years of professional experience working with individuals on a range of concerns in California.
What are her credentials and practice location?
She is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, CA LMFT 107302, practicing in California.
Which languages are supported and can international clients join?
Sessions are offered in English, and international clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are available?
Work is offered through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to suit different needs.
How does pricing work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin therapy with her?
Click the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a time based on the therapist's availability.

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