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Online therapist

Tamie O'Neil

Practical support for family and parenting challenges

Credentials
LMHC
Experience
12 years
Licensed in
New York
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Tamie

Tamie O'Neil is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) based in New York. She focuses on family and parenting concerns alongside a wide range of emotional and behavioral issues. Tamie brings 12 years of experience and aims to make conversations straightforward and useful for people feeling overwhelmed.

She uses a warm, client-centered style that starts by meeting people where they are. Sessions begin with listening and clarifying what matters most to the client.

Background and approach

From there she helps set clear goals and breaks those goals into manageable next steps. Tamie draws on several practical methods, including cognitive behavioral techniques to change unhelpful thinking, mindfulness practices to reduce distress, and solution-focused strategies to build small wins. She also uses motivational interviewing when people need help finding reasons to make hard changes.

Her background includes work with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, grief, addictions, and issues around intimacy and self-esteem. She has provided crisis counseling and helped people develop coping plans and identify supports when safety or basic needs were at risk. Tamie explains things plainly and keeps treatment goals concrete.

Parents can expect straightforward guidance on communication, behavior strategies, and managing stress related to family life. She welcomes clients who prefer online or remote formats and works to find a pace that fits each person.

How Tamie's Approaches Work Online

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening closely and shaping sessions around what the client says matters most. It helps people who need a calm, respectful space to sort priorities and set goals. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy - CBT looks at thoughts and behaviors and uses simple exercises to reduce anxiety and improve daily functioning; it is helpful for stress, panic, mood problems, and sleep or eating issues.

Finding the right approach is collaborative. Tamie will talk with each person about their goals and preferences and then try methods that fit those needs. If an approach doesn't feel helpful, she adjusts the plan together with the client to find what works better.

Online formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging, which make scheduling easier for busy family lives. These options let people keep regular contact, practice skills between meetings, and get support without long commutes. The variety of formats also makes it possible to pick the rhythm and style that best supports parenting and family responsibilities.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Mindfulness Therapy

Attention training: noticing thoughts and physical feelings as they arrive without being carried off by them. Much of it is practice you do yourself, so guidance over video or audio works much as it would in person.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Tamie address?
She works with stress, anxiety, depression, addictions, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy and self-esteem issues, parenting and family concerns, ADHD, bipolar mood issues, sleep and eating problems, anger, panic, and related problems listed in her profile.
How would you describe her therapy style?
Her approach is client-centered and goal-oriented. She listens first, helps set clear goals, and uses practical tools from CBT, mindfulness, solution-focused work, and motivational interviewing.
What is her clinical background?
She has 12 years of professional experience, including crisis counseling and work with a broad range of mental health concerns such as PTSD, mood disorders, and personality-related issues.
Where is she licensed and based?
She is licensed as an LMHC in New York with license number NY LMHC 005537 and practices from that state.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.
What session formats are available?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to accommodate different needs and schedules.
How are sessions priced?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
What are the first steps to begin therapy?
Use the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a session according to the therapist's availability.

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