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Online therapist

Ruth Westfall

Calm, practical support for stress and trauma

Credentials
LMSW
Experience
30 years
Licensed in
Michigan
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Ruth

Ruth Westfall uses a client-centered approach to help people cope with stress, trauma, and parenting challenges. She is a Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW, and brings three decades of experience to each conversation. Her style is practical and direct, focusing on skills that can be used right away.

Parents reading this will find clear guidance and steady support for everyday worries. Ruth has spent much of her career working with survivors of trauma and victims of crime.

Background and approach

During the COVID-19 pandemic she worked alongside a psychiatric nurse practitioner at a public health center and observed how prolonged stress affects many parts of life. That experience highlighted how emotional strain shows up in physical health, work, school, substance use, and relationships. She draws on cognitive behavioral therapy to identify unhelpful thought patterns and build new coping habits.

Dialectical behavior therapy and mindfulness techniques are woven in to help manage intense emotions and reduce reactivity. Motivational interviewing helps people find the reasons and motivation to make changes that matter to them. Sessions often focus on practical skills for managing anxiety, depression, grief, and caregiver stress.

Ruth emphasizes recognizing personal strengths and using them to move toward healing. Her work is grounded in simple, usable strategies rather than abstract theory. Ruth practices in Michigan and offers services in English.

She has a long track record of steady clinical experience and aims to make therapy accessible and understandable for parents and adults who need clear direction.

Therapeutic approaches and online care

Ruth frequently uses cognitive behavioral therapy to help people spot unhelpful thoughts and try different behaviors. CBT focuses on changing thought patterns and daily habits to reduce anxiety and improve mood. She also draws on dialectical behavior therapy to teach emotion regulation and distress tolerance skills that can reduce overwhelm in heated moments.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work together. She collaborates with clients to identify goals, test methods, and adjust techniques based on what feels helpful. That flexibility makes it easier to find strategies that fit each person’s life and needs.

Online sessions are offered through video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to provide flexibility for busy schedules. These formats allow people to access therapy from home or other convenient places, making it easier to keep regular appointments and practice skills between sessions.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

Concrete skills for riding out strong emotion, tolerating distress, and handling relationships without things escalating. The skills are practised in daily life, so between-session support by message or phone fits naturally.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?
She helps with stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, parenting, depression, grief, anger, self-esteem, and related mood concerns.
What is her therapeutic style?
Her approach is client-centered and practical, using techniques from cognitive behavioral therapy, DBT, mindfulness, and motivational interviewing.
How long has she been practicing?
She has 30 years of experience working as a therapist, including trauma work and public health settings.
Where is she based and what are her credentials?
She practices in Michigan and holds a Licensed Master Social Worker credential listed as MI LMSW 6801069412.
Which languages are supported?
Sessions are offered in English.
Can she work with clients outside the United States?
International clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are available?
Sessions can be conducted by video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.
How are costs and scheduling handled?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time; to begin, select Start Therapy and complete a short matching questionnaire.

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