Nicole Wilbur
Compassionate social worker helping families thrive
- Credentials
- LMSW
- Experience
- 19 years
- Licensed in
- Michigan
- Languages
- English
- Format
- Online sessions
About Nicole
Nicole Wilbur is a licensed social worker in Michigan with 19 years of experience. She has worked in hospitals, homecare, hospice and palliative care, brain injury programs, and schools. She has provided individual and group support, led workshops, and offered continuing education to other professionals.
Her background gives her a wide view of how health, learning differences, and life events affect daily functioning. Her style is warm and interactive. She uses practical tools from cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, and mindfulness to help people manage stress, anxiety, and mood concerns.
Background and approach
Sessions are shaped to match a family's or individual's personality and goals. The therapist focuses on building strengths and practicing new skills. Nicole has supported people facing trauma, abuse, substance use challenges, grief, and chronic illness.
She also has experience with ADHD, autism and learning differences, and caregiver stress. When relevant, she pays attention to how these issues affect communication and family relationships. In sessions she helps clients develop concrete strategies for sleep, eating, emotional regulation, and day-to-day coping.
She often blends mind-body and behavioral techniques to make skills practical and repeatable. The goal is steady progress through small changes. Parents and caregivers seeking help with parenting, family conflict, or a child’s emotional or behavioral needs may find her background relevant.
She frames therapy as a collaborative process and supports clients as they try new approaches and practice them between meetings.
Therapeutic approaches and online care that fit family life
Client-centered therapy focuses on understanding each person and tailoring conversations to what matters most. It helps clients set their own goals and work at a comfortable pace, which suits families juggling busy schedules.Cognitive behavioral therapy, or CBT, looks at how thoughts and actions influence feelings. It teaches straightforward skills for anxiety, depression, sleep, and behavior patterns that often affect family dynamics.
Dialectical behavior therapy, DBT, emphasizes emotion regulation and coping skills for strong feelings and impulsivity. It can be useful for managing intense reactions and improving communication within relationships.
Finding the right approach is part of the work together. The therapist will collaborate with clients to choose or combine methods based on needs, goals, and what feels practical for home life. This lets families try tools and adjust the plan over time.
Online therapy offers flexible ways to meet, including video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging. These options make it easier to fit sessions around school, work, medical appointments, and caregiving duties. Many families appreciate being able to practice skills in their home environment and check in between meetings.
Client-Centered Therapy
The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)
Concrete skills for riding out strong emotion, tolerating distress, and handling relationships without things escalating. The skills are practised in daily life, so between-session support by message or phone fits naturally.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
- Stress, Anxiety
- Relationship issues
- Trauma and abuse
Also works with
- Addictions
- ADHD
- Anger management
- Attachment issues
- Autism and Asperger Syndrome
- Bipolar disorder
- Career difficulties
- Caregiver issues and stress
- Chronic pain, illness, and disability
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Coping with life changes
- Depression
- Divorce and separation
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Eating disorders
- Family conflicts
- Family problems
- Grief
- Hospice and end-of-life counseling
- Impulsivity
- Intimacy-related issues
- LGBT
- Parenting issues
- Post-traumatic stress
- Pregnancy and childbirth
- Self esteem
- Self-love
- Sexual assault and abuse
- Sleeping disorders
- Social anxiety and phobia
- Traumatic brain injury
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 19 years
- Licensed
- Michigan
- Languages
- English
Next step
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