Matthew Paulus
Conflict resolution with practical steps
- Credentials
- LMHC
- Experience
- 6 years
- Licensed in
- Florida
- Languages
- English
- Format
- Online sessions
About Matthew
Matthew Paulus is a licensed mental health counselor who focuses on helping people manage conflict and strong emotions. He has six years of experience and works with adults on issues such as anger, stress, anxiety, and relationship strain. Matthew is based in Florida and conducts sessions in English.
He often helps people facing big life transitions, like the move to college or starting a new job. He also supports family members of individuals with addiction, offering practical ways to cope and set boundaries.
Background and approach
Sessions aim to make everyday life more manageable rather than promise quick fixes. Matthew blends straightforward talk with techniques drawn from cognitive behavioral therapy. He uses client-centered skills to listen and reflect what matters most to each person.
Motivational interviewing and solution-focused strategies are used when clients want concrete steps and short-term goals. In a typical session he will ask about what is happening now and what the person would like to change. Together they identify small experiments to try between meetings.
He keeps language plain and focuses on behaviors and choices that can shift stress and conflict over time. People looking for support with parenting tensions, family problems, workplace stress, or midlife and career questions may find his style practical and task-oriented. His aim is to help clients move from feeling stuck to having clearer next steps they can try at home.
Approaches that guide online sessions
Client-centered therapy focuses on listening and understanding each person’s experience. The therapist reflects concerns and priorities so clients feel heard and can name what matters most, which helps when deciding next steps.Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at the links between thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. In online sessions this can mean learning specific skills to reduce stress, manage anger, or change unhelpful routines using exercises and practice between meetings.
Matthew views matching an approach to a person as a collaborative process. He will discuss goals and preferences, try methods that fit the situation, and adjust based on what works. Clients help shape the plan as they go.
Online therapy makes regular work possible around busy lives. Video calls let people talk face to face, phone sessions remove travel time, and live chat or text-based messaging offer a way to check in between meetings. These options give flexibility for parents and workers managing schedules while still using focused, practical techniques.
Client-Centered Therapy
The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.
Existential Therapy
Takes the larger questions seriously: meaning, choice, mortality, responsibility. Suited to periods when the difficulty is less a symptom than a sense that something has to change.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
- Family conflicts
- Anger management
- Career difficulties
Also works with
- Coaching
- Codependency
- Communication problems
- Compassion fatigue
- Coping with life changes
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Family problems
- Intimacy-related issues
- Isolation / loneliness
- Life purpose
- Men's issues
- Midlife crisis
- Parenting issues
- Relationship issues
- Self esteem
- Stress, Anxiety
- Trauma and abuse
- Workplace issues
- Young adult issues
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 6 years
- Licensed
- Florida
- Languages
- English
Next step
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- Stop at any point