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Online therapist

Lamar Sykes

Skilled therapist for families and parents

Credentials
LMFT
Experience
14 years
Licensed in
Indiana
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Lamar

Lamar Sykes is a licensed marriage and family therapist who uses straightforward, practical methods to help families and parents navigate challenges. He blends client-centered care with proven strategies to support healthier communication and clearer problem solving. Lamar writes and speaks simply so people under stress can follow along and take action.

He holds an Indiana LMFT license (IN LMFT 35001976A) and brings 14 years of clinical experience to his work.

Background and approach

He focuses on family and parenting concerns along with stress, anxiety, and relationship issues. Sessions often include hands-on tools for handling anger, managing mood shifts, and improving everyday interactions. Lamar also addresses substance use, trauma and abuse, grief, and life transitions in ways that fit family life.

His background includes school-based therapy and independent practice settings. Lamar completed a Master of Science in Counseling Psychology at California Baptist University and earned a Bachelor of Arts in psychology from Butler University. He has worked with couples, individuals, teenagers, young adults, and Veterans.

Lamar prefers a collaborative approach that mixes Client-Centered Therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy with practical techniques from the Gottman Method and mindfulness. He also uses Motivational Interviewing when people are ready to change specific behaviors. Outside of work he lives in Indianapolis with his wife and three children and enjoys sports, comedies, and family time.

Therapeutic approaches and online delivery for families

Client-Centered Therapy focuses on listening and building trust so clients feel heard and understood; it helps when families need a calm space to talk through problems and make decisions. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, identifies unhelpful thoughts and patterns and teaches skills to change reactions and behaviors, which can be useful for anxiety, depression, and anger.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work. Lamar will collaborate with each person or family to decide which methods fit their goals and preferences. He adapts tools from different approaches so therapy matches what a family actually needs rather than following a strict program.

Online therapy formats include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging, which allow sessions to fit around school, work, and family commitments. These options make it easier to keep regular contact, use brief coaching messages between sessions, and follow through on practice tasks. Lamar uses these formats to bring practical skills, communication coaching, and problem-solving into everyday family life.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Gottman Method

A research-based framework for couples, focused on how partners argue, repair, and stay connected. Practical and structured, with exercises to try between sessions.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Lamar commonly address?
He works with a wide range of issues including stress, anxiety, relationship and family problems, parenting, anger, depression, ADHD, addictions, trauma and abuse, grief, intimacy concerns, and coping with life changes.
What is his general therapy style?
He uses a blend of client-centered care and structured methods like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and the Gottman Method to improve communication and build skills. Sessions are practical and goal-focused.
How much clinical experience does he have?
He has 14 years of experience working in settings such as school-based therapy and independent practice, supporting individuals, couples, teenagers, young adults, and Veterans.
What credentials and location are listed?
He is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with Indiana license IN LMFT 35001976A and is based in Indiana.
Which languages are available for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are offered?
He provides video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different preferences and schedules.
How is cost handled?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
What are the steps to begin working together?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.

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