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Online therapist

Ellen Thornton-Love

Compassionate, practical support for life's hard moments

Credentials
LCSW
Experience
20 years
Licensed in
Oregon
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Ellen

Ellen Thornton-Love is a licensed clinical social worker who focuses on helping people manage stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma, and parenting concerns. She aims to create a respectful, sensitive space where people feel heard. Ellen frames therapy as a collaborative process and adapts conversations to each person's situation.

Taking the first step can feel hard, and she offers steady support through that beginning work. With two decades of experience, Ellen draws on several practical approaches to guide sessions.

Background and approach

She uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people accept difficult emotions while moving toward what matters to them. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is used when patterns of thought and behavior are getting in the way of daily functioning. Client-centered methods keep the person’s priorities and values at the center of each meeting.

Ellen also brings solution-focused techniques to address immediate problems and motivational interviewing to help people find reasons to change when readiness is mixed. She pays attention to attachment and family-of-origin issues when those patterns are relevant to current struggles.

Her work includes supporting people coping with chronic pain, caregiver stress, financial worries, panic, postpartum shifts, and past sexual or other assault when these areas affect daily life. Sessions follow a plan tailored to the individual. Ellen mixes short-term strategies with ongoing support depending on goals.

She works with people in Oregon and offers sessions in English. Ellen holds the credential LCSW, Oregon LCSW L6833.

Therapeutic approaches and online care

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people notice painful thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, so they can act in ways that match their values. This approach can be useful for anxiety, depression, and ongoing stress. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy looks at how thoughts, feelings, and behaviors interact and teaches practical skills to shift unhelpful patterns. It is often applied for panic, mood struggles, and specific behavior changes. Client-centered therapy emphasizes listening and genuine respect, letting the person lead the pace and focus of sessions while the therapist reflects and supports.

Choosing the right approach is part of the work together. Ellen will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what feels most helpful. She often blends elements from different methods to match a person’s needs and revises the plan as progress and challenges emerge.

Online therapy offers flexibility in how and when sessions happen. Video calls and phone sessions allow real-time conversation, while live chat and text-based messaging provide shorter, more frequent check-ins or support between meetings. These options make it easier to fit care into busy family and work schedules and to keep momentum on homework and skill practice between appointments.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

Less about arguing with difficult thoughts, more about loosening their grip and acting on what matters to you anyway. Values and committed action carry the work, which suits conversation at a distance.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does this therapist address?
Ellen focuses on stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, grief, and parenting. She also works with related areas like attachment, caregiver stress, chronic illness, panic, postpartum challenges, and family problems.
How would you describe her therapy style?
She uses down-to-earth, collaborative conversations and mixes practical techniques with client-centered listening. Sessions typically include skill-building and problem-solving tailored to personal goals.
What is her professional background?
Ellen has 20 years of professional experience working in mental health settings. Her work history includes supporting people through trauma, mood concerns, and parenting-related stress.
Where is she licensed to practice?
She is licensed in Oregon as an LCSW. The license number provided is OR LCSW L6833.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English.
Can people outside the country work with her?
International clients are not currently accepted.
What session formats are available?
Sessions can be scheduled as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.
How does payment and scheduling work?
Cost varies by location and therapist availability and operates via a subscription model that can be canceled at any time. To begin, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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