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Online therapist

Elaine Lipkin

Experienced family and parenting therapist

Credentials
LMFT
Experience
35 years
Licensed in
California
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Elaine

Elaine Lipkin is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who focuses on family and parenting concerns. She aims to create a practical, down-to-earth space where parents and partners can talk through stress, relationship problems, grief, sleep issues, addictions, and life transitions.

Her style is straightforward and compassionate, focused on helping people identify what is getting in the way and what can change next. She trained and worked in a range of settings before licensure, including psychiatric hospitals and outpatient clinics.

Background and approach

Elaine earned her license as a Marriage and Family Therapist in 1990 and has been practicing in California for decades. She draws on 35 years of experience to adapt her work to each persons needs. In sessions she helps clients set clear, achievable goals and checks progress as therapy continues.

Some work is short-term and solution-focused. Other work is longer when deeper patterns need attention. She explains ideas plainly and teaches skills people can use between appointments.

Elaine combines family systems thinking with practical tools from cognitive behavioral and mindfulness approaches. She has particular experience supporting couples and adults dealing with fertility and caregiving stress. Her training included focused work with a national support organization in the area of infertility.

Clients can expect an even tone and careful listening as Elaine helps them build coping skills and notice what keeps old patterns going. The aim is steady progress you can measure and use in everyday life.

Therapeutic approaches that work online for families

Elaine uses approaches that translate well to online work. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, focuses on practical steps and changing unhelpful thinking and behavior. It is useful for anxiety, depression, sleep problems, and everyday stressors. Mindfulness Therapy teaches simple awareness and breathing practices to reduce reactivity and improve focus. It can help with anxiety, grief, and coping with life changes.

Choosing the best approach is a team effort. Elaine will listen to your concerns, discuss goals, and suggest methods that fit your situation and preferences. Together you can try different techniques and adjust the plan based on what feels most helpful.

Online sessions make it easier to fit therapy into busy family lives. Video calls let you preserve face-to-face connection while working from home. Phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging offer extra flexibility for brief check-ins or when a live camera session is not convenient. These options help parents and partners access steady support without needing to travel, making it simpler to practice new skills between appointments.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Mindfulness Therapy

Attention training: noticing thoughts and physical feelings as they arrive without being carried off by them. Much of it is practice you do yourself, so guidance over video or audio works much as it would in person.

Solution-Focused Therapy

Rather than examining the problem at length, this looks at what is already working and builds on it. Sessions tend to be practical and forward-looking, with small achievable steps, which translates readily to shorter online conversations.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she address?
She works with stress, anxiety, relationship difficulties, grief, self esteem, depression, addictions, family problems, sleeping issues, parenting, and coping with life changes. Additional focuses include aging and geriatric issues, blended family issues, cancer and caregiver stress, family of origin concerns, fertility issues, midlife crisis, self-love, womens issues, and young adult issues.
What is her therapeutic approach like?
Her style mixes practical problem solving with skills training and gentle reflection. She uses cognitive behavioral techniques, mindfulness practices, and solution-focused methods to set goals and teach skills clients can use between sessions.
How long has she been practicing?
She has worked in the mental health field since 1975 and has been a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist since 1990, giving her 35 years of post-licensure experience in clinical work.
What credentials and where is she licensed?
Elaine is an LMFT, licensed in California with license number CA LMFT 27327.
Which languages are supported for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English.
Can international clients work with her?
International clients are not currently accepted; she practices in California and works with clients within that scope.
What session formats are available?
She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to provide flexible ways to meet depending on client needs and preferences.
How does payment and scheduling work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time. To begin, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule based on therapist availability.

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Experience
35 years
Licensed
California
Languages
English

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