Deborah Petry
Compassionate, practical help for relationships and parenting
- Credentials
- LCSW
- Experience
- 16 years
- Licensed in
- New York, Connecticut
- Languages
- English
- Format
- Online sessions
About Deborah
Deborah Petry is a licensed clinical social worker who focuses on relationship concerns, addictions, intimacy issues, and parenting. She brings 16 years of experience and a calm, collaborative style. Parents and partners often come to her hoping to improve communication, address substance use, or rebuild trust.
She emphasizes working at each person’s pace and clarifying practical goals. Her sessions are person-centered and straightforward. Deborah listens first, then helps identify small steps that lead to change.
Background and approach
She uses concrete tools and exercises rather than long theoretical talks. Many people appreciate clear guidance they can try between sessions. When working with couples, she uses the Gottman Method and practical exercises aimed at improving day-to-day interactions.
For substance use and motivation, she draws on motivational interviewing to support readiness for change. Cognitive behavioral techniques help when patterns of thinking or behavior cause repeated problems. Deborah trained and practiced across multiple approaches so she can match methods to a client’s goals.
She uses what helps most - whether that is short-term problem solving or deeper work on relationship patterns. Her tone is matter-of-fact and supportive, focused on doable next steps. Sessions are offered in English from Connecticut and use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
Deborah encourages people to start by identifying one clear issue to work on and then building on progress over time.
Online approaches that fit family and relationship issues
Deborah uses the Gottman Method to give couples clear exercises and step-by-step practices for improving daily interaction and trust. The Gottman work focuses on communication habits, rebuilding connection after conflict, and practical tasks couples can do between sessions.She also draws on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy or CBT to help people notice and change unhelpful thought and behavior patterns. CBT is helpful for mood concerns, anxiety, and problems that repeat because of the same thinking or actions. Motivational Interviewing is used when substance use or readiness for change is a focus; it supports people in finding their own reasons to try something different.
Choosing the right method is a collaborative process. The therapist will talk about goals and preferences, try approaches that fit, and adjust as needed. Clients and the therapist decide together which tools to keep using.
Online therapy here includes video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to make sessions flexible. These options let people fit work into busy family schedules and stay connected between appointments. Deborah aims to make regular contact practical and consistent so clients can try new skills in real life and discuss what works next.
Client-Centered Therapy
The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.
Gottman Method
A research-based framework for couples, focused on how partners argue, repair, and stay connected. Practical and structured, with exercises to try between sessions.
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Specialties and expertise
Top specialties
- Addictions
- Relationship issues
Also works with
- Co-morbidity
- Codependency
- Commitment issues
- Communication problems
- Divorce and separation
- Domestic violence
- Drug and alcohol addiction
- Family of origin issues
- Family problems
- Infidelity
- Intimacy-related issues
- Mood disorders
- Parenting issues
- Personality disorders
Therapeutic approaches
- Experience
- 16 years
- Licensed
- New York, Connecticut
- Languages
- English
Next step
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