Stella Holmes-Hughes, LCSW - Therapist in New York

About Stella

Stella Holmes-Hughes offers practical, compassionate support for parents and families facing stressful times. She focuses on helping people manage anxiety, depression, anger, and relationship struggles in day-to-day life. Stella uses simple, direct conversation to identify what is getting in the way and then works with each person to try out realistic changes.

With 27 years of experience as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Stella adapts her approach to match each person’s needs.

Background and approach

She draws on cognitive behavioral techniques to address unhelpful thoughts and behaviors. She also uses acceptance and commitment strategies to clarify values and build actions that feel meaningful. For issues tied to relationships and attachment, she leans on attachment-based ideas to help people understand patterns that repeat across families.

Dialectical behavior skills are introduced when managing intense feelings or improving emotion regulation. Sessions are built around what the client wants to achieve rather than a fixed agenda. Stella has worked in a range of settings over nearly three decades and brings that practical experience to conversations about parenting, addiction, trauma, and intimacy-related concerns.

She treats people with respect, sensitivity, and compassion while tailoring talk and plans to individual situations. People who choose her can expect a calm, straightforward style and a focus on doable steps. The process begins with a short intake to set goals and then moves into regular sessions that match those aims.

How therapy approaches translate to online care

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people notice unhelpful thoughts, connect with what matters most, and take small actions that match their values. It can be useful for anxiety, depression, and situations where feeling stuck gets in the way. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy focuses on changing thoughts and behaviors that keep problems going, offering practical tools for mood, stress, and worry.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Stella will collaborate with each person to choose or combine methods based on goals, preferences, and how problems show up at home. She adapts techniques to fit the rhythm of online sessions so the plan feels doable.

Online therapy options include video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging, which can make it easier to fit sessions into parenting schedules. These formats let people check in between weeks, try out new skills in real life, and keep therapy consistent when life gets busy. The combination of flexible formats and straightforward therapeutic tools aims to make progress feel practical and relevant.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

Less about arguing with difficult thoughts, more about loosening their grip and acting on what matters to you anyway. Values and committed action carry the work, which suits conversation at a distance.

Attachment-Based Therapy

Looks at how early bonds shaped what you expect from closeness, and how that plays out now with a partner, a parent, or your own children.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Stella commonly address?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, anger, addictions, relationship and intimacy-related issues, and parenting challenges, along with trauma and abuse and other related concerns listed in her profile.

What is her general therapeutic style?

Her style is practical and collaborative, using clear conversation to set goals and try out changes that fit daily life.

How much experience does she bring?

Stella has 27 years of professional experience as a clinician.

What are her credentials and where is she licensed?

She is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with New York registration NY LCSW 075112 and practices from New York.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can people outside the country work with her?

She is not taking international clients at this time.

What session formats are available?

She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging as session formats.

How do fees and payment work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

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Experience: 27 years
Licensed: New York
Languages: English

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