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Online therapist

Simone Totoro

Practical therapy for parents and families

Credentials
LPC, LMHC
Experience
20 years
Licensed in
New Jersey, Florida, Pennsylvania
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Simone

Simone Totoro uses a practical, client-centered approach to help families and parents manage day-to-day challenges. She blends talk therapy with tools from cognitive behavioral therapy and mindfulness to teach skills you can use at home. Simone has two decades of experience in mental health and holds LPC and LMHC credentials.

Simone focuses on stress, anxiety, addictions, parenting concerns, low self-esteem, and depression. She also addresses family conflict, trauma and abuse, sleep problems, anger, career transitions, and coping with life changes.

Background and approach

Additional attention is given to abandonment, blended family issues, isolation and questions of life purpose. Her style is straightforward and goal-focused. She uses solution-focused techniques and motivational interviewing to help people set clear next steps.

Cognitive behavioral tools are used to change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors, while mindfulness practices help manage strong emotions and improve sleep. Simone brings practical experience from twenty years in the field. Her work has included helping adults and older adults navigate mood concerns, trauma reactions, and adjustment difficulties.

She keeps learning through continuing education and training in telehealth and mindfulness. Sessions are oriented toward small, manageable goals and steady progress. Simone often pairs talking with exercises and homework that fit family routines.

The aim is to build skills that make daily life feel more manageable and reduce conflict at home.

Approach-driven online therapy for family and parenting issues

Client-centered therapy focuses on listening and understanding your priorities, then shaping sessions around what matters most to you. It helps people feel heard and guide decisions about parenting or family goals.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, teaches concrete skills to change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors. It is useful for anxiety, stress, sleep problems, and mood concerns and includes practical exercises you can practice between sessions.

Mindfulness teaches simple ways to notice and sit with strong feelings without reacting immediately. These practices can reduce reactivity at home and improve sleep over time.

Choosing the right mix of approaches is part of the work. Simone will collaborate with each person to decide which methods fit their needs, goals, and daily life. That process can include trying different techniques and adjusting as progress is made.

Online sessions offer flexibility with video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging. This variety makes it easier to fit therapy into busy family schedules and to use approaches like CBT and mindfulness in real time. The goal is to make practical tools accessible and adaptable to your home routine.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Mindfulness Therapy

Attention training: noticing thoughts and physical feelings as they arrive without being carried off by them. Much of it is practice you do yourself, so guidance over video or audio works much as it would in person.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does she address?
She works with stress, anxiety, addictions, parenting challenges, self-esteem, depression, family problems, trauma and abuse, sleep issues, anger, and career or life changes. Additional focus areas include abandonment, blended family issues, isolation, and life purpose.
What is her therapeutic style?
Her style is client-centered and practical, using solution-focused work, motivational interviewing, mindfulness, and cognitive behavioral techniques to set goals and build everyday skills.
How much experience does she have?
She has worked in mental health for 20 years, bringing long-term practical experience to helping people manage mood, trauma, and family concerns.
What are her credentials and where is she based?
She holds the LPC credential and is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, and practices from New Jersey.
Which languages are supported?
Sessions are offered in English and she accepts international clients.
What session formats are available?
Sessions can be conducted as video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different schedules and needs.
How does payment work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions are provided through a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to therapist availability.

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Experience
20 years
Licensed
New Jersey, Florida, Pennsylvania, Mississippi
Languages
English

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