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Online therapist

Nicole VandeLinde

Supportive family and parenting counselor

Credentials
LPC
Experience
10 years
Licensed in
Missouri
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Nicole

Nicole VandeLinde is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Missouri with ten years of clinical experience. She focuses on family and parenting concerns among other life stresses. She aims to make the first step easier for people who feel stuck, offering steady support and practical direction.

Nicole creates a calm space where people can speak plainly about hard things. She encourages honest conversation and small, achievable steps that move a family or individual forward.

Background and approach

Her faith is important to her and it informs how she supports clients seeking healing and wholeness. Her work draws on a mix of therapeutic methods rather than a single model. She uses techniques from cognitive behavioral therapy and acceptance and commitment therapy to help people change unhelpful patterns.

Emotionally focused ideas guide work around closeness and feelings. Nicole has helped clients address stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma and abuse, addictions, anger, self-esteem, intimacy-related struggles, compassion fatigue, and parenting challenges. She listens for what matters most and tailors steps to the situation.

In sessions she focuses on clear goals and realistic actions. She supports clients as they practice new ways of coping between meetings. The aim is steady progress toward the changes people want to see.

Her practice offers a respectful, grounded approach that blends practical tools with values-based reflection. Nicole values partnership in therapy and guides each person toward solutions that fit their life.

Therapeutic approaches and how they work online

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people notice painful thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them, then choose actions that match their values. It is often useful for anxiety, depression, and life changes. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at patterns of thinking and behavior and teaches practical skills to shift unhelpful habits and reduce distress. It is commonly used for stress, anxiety, and mood concerns. Emotionally-Focused Therapy, or EFT, helps people identify and respond to emotions in clearer ways to build connection and understanding in relationships.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. Nicole works collaboratively with each person to decide which methods fit their goals and preferences. She adapts methods over time as needs change and as clients try new ways of coping.

Online therapy offers flexible ways to connect. Sessions are available by video calls or phone, and there are live chat and text-based messaging options for more frequent check-ins or when a brief touchpoint is helpful. These formats make it easier to fit therapy into busy family schedules and to continue consistent work even when in-person sessions are difficult.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

Less about arguing with difficult thoughts, more about loosening their grip and acting on what matters to you anyway. Values and committed action carry the work, which suits conversation at a distance.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)

Attends to the emotions underneath a recurring argument or distance, and to the attachment needs driving them. Often used where a relationship keeps returning to the same painful loop.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she help with?
She works with issues like stress, anxiety, depression, grief, trauma and abuse, addictions, parenting challenges, relationship and intimacy-related issues, anger, self-esteem, and compassion fatigue.
What is her general approach in sessions?
Nicole blends methods to fit each person, emphasizing honest conversation, clear goals, and practical steps. She aims to help clients practice new coping skills between sessions.
How long has she practiced therapy?
She has ten years of experience providing counseling and support to people facing a range of life challenges.
What are her credentials and where does she practice?
She is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) with license number MO LPC 2020019554 and provides services based in Missouri.
Which languages are supported for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available?
Therapy can be done via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.
How are sessions paid for and what does cost look like?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with her?
Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then scheduling according to therapist availability.

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