Mary Sanders, LMHC - Therapist in Washington

About Mary

Mary Sanders is a licensed mental health counselor who blends practical skills with creative approaches. She brings 17 years of clinical experience in Washington and speaks English. Parents and caregivers will find clear, direct help for family problems and relationship struggles.

She uses straightforward, conversational sessions to help people manage grief, trauma, and life changes. She draws on approaches like attachment work and cognitive behavioral techniques to make patterns easier to see and change.

Background and approach

Sessions are focused on concrete steps and clearer communication at home. Mary’s background includes long experience with expressive arts and theater techniques. She has used drama and other creative practices in therapeutic work for about 20 years.

Those tools are offered when they fit a family’s needs and comfort level. In community mental health settings she worked with many people affected by traumatic experiences. Her approach to trauma incorporates trauma-informed practices and careful pacing so clients feel supported as they work through painful memories.

She also uses motivational interviewing and mindfulness in everyday coping skills. Mary aims to build an open, nonjudgmental space where parents and children can speak honestly. She provides basic guidance about nutrition and complementary approaches when relevant.

Her style is collaborative and practical, focused on helping families find manageable ways forward.

Therapeutic approaches suited to online family work

Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how early bonds affect current relationships. Online sessions can use this approach to help families notice interaction patterns and practice new ways of connecting. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, looks at thoughts and behaviors to find small, practical changes. It is useful for tackling anxiety, social fears, and communication habits through structured exercises and home practice.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. The therapist will collaborate with each family to choose or combine approaches based on goals and comfort. Decisions about pacing, use of creative exercises, and homework are made together so the plan fits daily life.

Online formats offer flexibility for busy families. Video calls allow face-to-face conversation and use of visual tools. Phone sessions provide a simpler option when video is not possible. Live chat and text-based messaging give shorter, more frequent check-ins and help maintain momentum between sessions. These options make it easier to fit therapy into school and work schedules while keeping continuity of care.

Attachment-Based Therapy

Looks at how early bonds shaped what you expect from closeness, and how that plays out now with a partner, a parent, or your own children.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of family concerns does Mary address?

She works with relationship strain, family conflict, trauma and abuse, grief, and coping with life changes. Additional focuses include attachment issues, communication problems, divorce and separation, and social anxiety.

How would you describe her therapy style?

Sessions are conversational and practical, mixing attachment work, cognitive behavioral tools, mindfulness, and motivational interviewing to help families build clearer habits and better communication.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 17 years of professional experience, including work in independent practice and community mental health settings.

What are her credentials and where is she licensed?

She is a licensed mental health counselor - LMHC - with the Washington license number WA LMHC LH60462192 and practices in Washington.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

What formats are available for online sessions?

She offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging for remote work.

How are sessions paid for and what does it cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to therapist availability.

Specialties and expertise

Top specialties

Relationship issues
Family conflicts
Trauma and abuse

Also works with

Therapeutic approaches

Experience: 17 years
Licensed: Washington
Languages: English

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