Kathleen Lynch Gaffney, LCSW - Therapist in New York

About Kathleen

Kathleen Lynch Gaffney is a licensed clinical social worker who focuses on family and parenting concerns alongside a wide range of life stresses. She aims to create a respectful, steady space where parents and caregivers can talk through daily pressures, relationship strains, or changes at home.

Kathleen emphasizes listening first and building a predictable, reliable therapeutic relationship that feels safe to return to. She brings 35 years of experience working with people from varied backgrounds and ages.

Background and approach

That history informs a practical approach that blends evidence-based methods with straightforward support. Kathleen uses tools from cognitive behavioral therapy to help people spot unhelpful thinking patterns and from mindfulness to teach simple ways to calm the body and mind. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is part of her toolkit when someone needs help accepting difficult feelings while moving toward important values.

Attachment-based ideas are used to understand how early relationships shape current responses, especially around closeness and trust. Client-centered techniques keep the work grounded in each person’s goals and pace. She also works with concerns like trauma and grief, depression, anxiety, parenting challenges, ADHD, and issues related to HIV/AIDS.

Kathleen aims to be reliable and respectful in sessions and treats reaching out as a meaningful first step. She invites people to share their stories at a tempo that feels right for them.

How Kathleen’s Approaches Work Online

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, or ACT, helps people notice difficult thoughts and feelings without getting stuck in them and then take actions that fit their values. It can help when life changes feel overwhelming or when someone wants clearer direction despite hard emotions.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, or CBT, focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing them with real-world experiments. It’s useful for anxiety, depression, and stress that comes from repetitive negative thinking.

Finding the right approach is part of the work together. Kathleen will talk with each person about goals, preferences, and what has or hasn’t helped in the past. That conversation guides whether ACT, CBT, attachment ideas, mindfulness, or client-centered listening is emphasized in sessions.

Online sessions use video, phone, live chat, or text-based messaging to make therapy flexible. These options let people connect from home, fit sessions into busy schedules, and check in in shorter or more frequent ways when that suits them.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

Less about arguing with difficult thoughts, more about loosening their grip and acting on what matters to you anyway. Values and committed action carry the work, which suits conversation at a distance.

Attachment-Based Therapy

Looks at how early bonds shaped what you expect from closeness, and how that plays out now with a partner, a parent, or your own children.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Kathleen commonly address?

She works with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and abuse, grief, parenting challenges, relationship and intimacy issues, eating concerns, anger, self esteem, career changes, bipolar disorder, compassion fatigue, ADHD, and HIV/AIDS related matters.

How would you describe her therapy style?

Her approach is down-to-earth and collaborative, mixing client-centered listening with practical methods like cognitive behavioral therapy and mindfulness.

What is her professional background?

Kathleen has 35 years of clinical experience working with people from diverse backgrounds and ages.

What credentials and location information are on record?

She is a licensed clinical social worker, NY LCSW 036173, and practices from New York.

Which languages are supported in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

What formats are available for meeting with Kathleen?

Sessions may be held via video calls, phone sessions, live chat, or text-based messaging.

How does payment work and what does it cost?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How do I begin working with her?

Start by clicking the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

Specialties and expertise

Top specialties

Also works with

ADHD
Anger management
Bipolar disorder
Career difficulties
Compassion fatigue
Coping with life changes
Depression
Eating disorders
Grief
HIV / AIDS
Intimacy-related issues
Parenting issues
Relationship issues
Self esteem

Therapeutic approaches

Experience: 35 years
Licensed: New York
Languages: English

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