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Online therapist

John ODonoghue

Calm, experienced guidance for family matters

Credentials
LMFT, LCMHC
Experience
27 years
Licensed in
North Carolina, California
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About John

John ODonoghue is a licensed therapist who focuses on family and parenting concerns alongside a range of personal and relational struggles. He offers steady, plainspoken support for people coping with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, addictions, career pressures, anger, intimacy issues, and family conflicts. With a calm manner, he helps clients talk through immediate problems and set practical steps for change.

He trained later in life and brings both professional experience and personal perspective to the work.

Background and approach

He holds a Master’s degree in Psychology and a Master’s in Counseling Psychology, and carries licenses as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor. His credentials are CA LMFT 40935 and NC LCMHC 8857. In sessions he blends several approaches to meet each person where they are.

He uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people notice what matters most and act on it. He employs Attachment-Based ideas to gently look at relational patterns and how they affect trust and closeness. He also uses EMDR for trauma work when appropriate.

John has over 27 years of experience in many settings, including workplace counseling and addiction programs. He has developed an alternative addiction treatment program and follows harm reduction principles. He also addresses issues such as infidelity and non-monogamous relationship dynamics with an open, nonjudgmental stance.

Practical goals guide his work. Sessions can be short-term to solve a single problem or longer to reveal deeper patterns. He aims to help clients find more self-acceptance, clearer choices, and steadier relationships.

How his approaches translate to online therapy

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy helps people clarify what matters most and take small practical steps toward those values. Online ACT sessions focus on noticing difficult thoughts, practicing acceptance, and choosing actions that align with personal goals. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early and current relationships shape patterns today and helps people try new ways of relating. In remote sessions this can mean talking through interactions, identifying triggers, and rehearsing different responses with the therapist's guidance. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, or EMDR, is a structured method to process traumatic memories. When appropriate, it can be adapted for video or phone work to reduce distress tied to past events.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. He collaborates with each person to choose methods that fit their needs, goals, and comfort level. That might mean starting with conversation-based tools, adding ACT practices, or moving toward EMDR for trauma. The plan is adjusted as progress and priorities become clearer.

Online sessions offer flexibility for busy families and people with limited travel options. Video calls let the therapist and client read facial cues and have real-time dialogue, while phone, live chat, and text messaging provide alternatives when video is not practical. These formats make it easier to keep momentum between sessions and fit therapy into real life.

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

Less about arguing with difficult thoughts, more about loosening their grip and acting on what matters to you anyway. Values and committed action carry the work, which suits conversation at a distance.

Attachment-Based Therapy

Looks at how early bonds shaped what you expect from closeness, and how that plays out now with a partner, a parent, or your own children.

Client-Centered Therapy

The direction comes from you rather than from a set programme. The therapist offers a warm, non-judgemental space to think out loud and work at your own pace. Online, this rests on the relationship rather than on being in the same room.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does he address?
He works with stress, anxiety, depression, grief, addictions, relationship and family issues, career pressures, anger, intimacy problems, trauma and related concerns such as infidelity and non-monogamous relationships.
What is his general therapeutic style?
He uses a straightforward, collaborative style that mixes talking through immediate problems with steps you can try between sessions.
How long has he been practicing?
He brings 27 years of clinical experience in a variety of settings, including workplace counseling and addiction program development.
What are his credentials and where is he based?
He holds licenses as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor - CA LMFT 40935 and NC LCMHC 8857 - and practices from North Carolina.
Which languages are supported for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English and he does accept international clients.
What session formats are available?
He offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different needs and schedules.
How does pricing work?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
To start, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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Experience
27 years
Licensed
North Carolina, California
Languages
English

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