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Online therapist

Elias Gootzeit

Calm guidance for parents and adults

Credentials
LCSW-R
Experience
40 years
Licensed in
New York
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Elias

Elias Gootzeit offers support for stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, parenting challenges, anger, and depression. He draws on forty years of clinical experience to help people find steadier footing during hard times. Sessions are practical and down-to-earth, focused on skills that can be used between meetings.

Elias holds the Licensed Clinical Social Worker in New York - LCSW-R credential. Elias uses evidence-based techniques to help people manage strong emotions and cope with past hurts.

Background and approach

He helps clients identify unhelpful patterns and try small changes that can ease daily pressure. Conversations stay straightforward, with an emphasis on usable tools like emotion regulation and coping strategies. The practice addresses related concerns such as attachment and abandonment issues, caregiver stress, divorce and separation, and post-traumatic stress.

Elias also works with issues like guilt, shame, impulsivity, and isolation. He aims to create an open, non-religious space where people can speak honestly without feeling judged. Elias trained at Fordham University, earning a Master of Social Work in 1978, and maintains his NY LCSW-R 020933.

Over the years he has added trainings such as Divorce Mediation and Multi-Dimensional Family Therapy to his toolkit. That ongoing learning informs how he matches methods to each person’s needs. In sessions clients can expect a mix of problem-solving and emotional support.

The focus is on building resilience and practical skills to handle everyday strains. Elias works to help people leave therapy with clearer steps they can take on their own.

Evidence-based approaches for online support

Many of Elias's techniques come from evidence-based therapeutic methods that focus on clear skills and real-life change. One approach emphasizes emotion regulation - learning simple strategies to calm intense feelings and react less impulsively. This helps with anger, anxiety, and mood difficulties by teaching step-by-step techniques to manage moments of distress.

Another common focus is trauma-informed work that helps people process past harm at a manageable pace. This approach breaks down painful memories into smaller pieces and pairs that work with coping skills so clients can feel steadier as they address traumatic events.

Finding the right approach is a shared process. Elias works collaboratively to figure out which methods match a person’s needs, goals, and preferences, and adjusts the plan as progress is made.

Online formats make it easier to fit therapy into a busy life. Video calls let people see facial cues and have a fuller conversation, while phone sessions offer simplicity when video is impractical. Live chat and text messaging provide brief, flexible ways to check in between sessions or use short-term support. These options increase accessibility and make it simpler to maintain regular work on problems over time.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Elias address?
He supports people facing stress, anxiety, trauma and abuse, parenting difficulties, anger, and depression, along with related issues like attachment, caregiver stress, and post-traumatic stress.
What is his therapeutic style?
Sessions are straightforward and practical. Elias focuses on clear tools for managing strong emotions and changing unhelpful patterns.
How much experience does he have?
He brings forty years of professional experience to his work, with ongoing training over the decades to update his skills.
What credentials and location apply?
He holds a New York Licensed Clinical Social Worker credential - NY LCSW-R 020933, and his practice is based in New York.
Which languages are supported?
Sessions are offered in English only and international clients are not accepted.
What session formats are available?
He offers video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to suit different needs.
How are costs handled?
Cost varies by location and therapist availability and sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin working with him?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a brief matching questionnaire, and then schedule according to the therapist's availability.

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