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Online therapist

Deja Spikes

Practical support for stress and family challenges

Credentials
LCSW
Experience
5 years
Licensed in
Virginia
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Deja

Deja Spikes is a licensed clinical social worker who helps people facing stress, anxiety, depression, relationship strain, family conflict, and ADHD concerns. She supports those dealing with communication breakdowns, infidelity, and the pressures that come with parenting and family life. Deja also focuses on women's issues, pregnancy and childbirth transitions, and challenges common in young adulthood.

Her style is warm and direct. She aims to create a space where people feel seen and respected.

Background and approach

Sessions focus on building self-love, improving communication skills, and practical steps to manage daily stress. Expect straightforward conversation and concrete tools you can try between sessions. Deja brings five years of clinical experience to her work and pays attention to cultural context and individual identity.

She has worked with military-connected people and veterans and understands challenges that can come from service and military life. Her work is person-centered and attentive to each client's priorities. People meet her to sort through relationship strain, to learn how to set boundaries, or to manage mood and attention challenges.

She supports parents and those juggling family responsibilities by breaking problems into manageable steps. Her approach balances emotional support with skills that help in everyday life. Beginning therapy with Deja involves naming your priorities and trying practical strategies.

She aims to walk alongside clients with care while helping them move toward clearer communication and steadier day-to-day routines.

Evidence-based approaches and online care

Deja uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques focused on practical change and clearer relationships. One common approach is skills-based work that teaches communication strategies and tools for managing anxiety or stress; this helps people handle tense conversations and daily overwhelm. Another approach emphasizes building self-compassion and self-love through guided reflection and small behavioral experiments to shift negative self-talk and improve everyday routines.

Choosing the right approach is a collaborative process. The therapist will work with each person to identify goals and try techniques that fit their needs and preferences. If one strategy doesn’t fit, adjustments are made together so therapy stays useful and relevant.

Online therapy can make it easier to fit care into a busy life by removing travel time and allowing sessions during breaks or between commitments. Because the biography does not specify which session formats are offered, confirm current options before booking. Doing that will clarify whether sessions are scheduled in a way that fits work, childcare, or other responsibilities and allows for consistent progress.

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Deja commonly help with?
She works with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and family concerns, and ADHD-related issues. Additional focuses include communication problems, infidelity, pregnancy and childbirth, women's issues, and young adult challenges.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
Her style is warm and direct, emphasizing practical skills and straightforward conversation. She helps clients build self-love and improve communication while addressing daily stressors.
What is her clinical experience?
Deja has five years of clinical experience working with people facing relationship strain, mood concerns, attention challenges, and military-connected issues.
What credentials and location are listed for this therapist?
She is a LCSW, which stands for Licensed Clinical Social Worker, and practices in Virginia.
Which languages are sessions offered in?
Sessions are offered in English.
Can international clients work with this therapist?
International clients are not currently accepted.
How are session formats arranged?
The biography does not list specific session formats; please confirm current session options before booking to know whether phone, video, or in-person sessions are available.
How is cost handled and how do I begin?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability and uses a subscription that can be canceled at any time. To start, select the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule according to therapist availability.

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Experience
5 years
Licensed
Virginia
Languages
English

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