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Online therapist

Alessandra Baird

Skilled, practical support for family and parenting

Credentials
LMFT
Experience
14 years
Licensed in
Utah
Languages
English
Format
Online sessions

About Alessandra

Alessandra Baird is a licensed marriage and family therapist who focuses on family and parenting concerns. She approaches sessions with warmth and straightforwardness, listening closely to what matters to each person. Alessandra aims to make therapy feel practical and understandable for busy parents and caregivers.

Her style is open and nonjudgmental, and she does not mix religious approaches with research-based methods. Alessandra draws on 14 years of clinical experience across multiple settings.

Background and approach

She uses tools from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), and the Gottman Method. She adapts techniques to fit the situation, choosing what will help most for a family or parenting challenge.

Common issues she addresses include stress, anxiety, relationship and family conflict, trauma, depression, addictions, grief, parenting struggles, anger, and coping with life changes. She also works with blended family issues, communication problems, divorce and separation, family of origin concerns, immigration-related stress, postpartum depression, and mood disorders like Seasonal Affective Disorder. Alessandra emphasizes empathy and understanding.

She aims to help people feel heard and less alone while guiding them toward clear steps and skills. Therapy can include short-term problem solving or deeper work on past hurts, depending on what a family needs. Sessions are offered in English and take place online through video, phone, live chat, or text messaging.

Alessandra is based in Utah and holds licensure as an LMFT.

Online approaches for family and parenting support

Alessandra commonly uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Emotionally-Focused Therapy to help families and parents make change. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) focuses on identifying unhelpful thoughts and testing new behaviors to reduce symptoms like anxiety or mood problems. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) looks at patterns of interaction and emotions within close relationships and helps people shift how they respond to each other to improve connection and understanding.

She also offers tools from Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) when trauma symptoms are present. EMDR works by helping the brain process distressing memories so they cause less intense reactions in day-to-day life. Choosing which approach to use is a collaborative process - the therapist and the family talk about goals, try methods, and adjust as needed to find what works best.

Online therapy offers practical benefits for parents and caregivers. Video calls let families meet from home when schedules are tight. Phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging provide flexible ways to check in between appointments or when a live conversation fits better. These options make it easier to keep therapy consistent while juggling family routines and responsibilities.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT looks at the link between what you think, how you feel, and what you do. You work on noticing unhelpful patterns and practising steadier responses. It suits online sessions well, because much of the work happens between appointments and can be talked through from anywhere.

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

Concrete skills for riding out strong emotion, tolerating distress, and handling relationships without things escalating. The skills are practised in daily life, so between-session support by message or phone fits naturally.

Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)

Attends to the emotions underneath a recurring argument or distance, and to the attachment needs driving them. Often used where a relationship keeps returning to the same painful loop.

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?
She helps with stress, anxiety, relationship and family conflict, trauma and abuse, depression, addictions, grief, parenting, anger, and coping with life changes. Additional focus areas include blended family issues, communication problems, divorce and separation, and postpartum depression.
How would you describe her therapeutic style?
Her style is warm but direct. She listens closely, offers practical skills, and tailors methods to each familys needs.
What background does she bring to sessions?
She has 14 years of clinical experience working in different settings with mood disorders, trauma, family conflict, and other concerns. That range informs how she adapts treatment.
What credentials and location are on record?
She is a licensed marriage and family therapist - LMFT - with UT LMFT number 7907314-3902 and is based in Utah.
Which languages are supported?
Sessions are offered in English.
What session formats are available?
She works online using video calls, phone sessions, live chat, and text-based messaging to fit different needs.
How is payment handled and what does it cost?
Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time.
How do I begin if I want to work with her?
Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and then schedule sessions according to the therapists availability.

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